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Hello
Everyone
I'm lia a long time no see
You know last night i watched a documentary about the parent child relationship
And it has lingdered in my mind
All day long it's a little bit serious
But i've been thinking about questions like this my whole life
Like why do human die
I've wondered that ever since i was a kid
And why do people push themselves so hard to find the meaning of life
Um when it comes to parent kid relationships
Um it feels personal to me
The documentary starts with several questions through which the director explores what the best way to say a goodbye to our parents
Is
And um do we tell the doctors to keep saving our parents lives
Even when they are already suffering terribly you know
And do we need to prepare ourselves to face everything related to our parents passing
You know these kind of questions are really upsetting
But still so you know
So searching or thought provoking right um for me the best way to handle this kind of situation is to remember that our parents will lowest love us
No matter where they are
And every now and then um you know
Turn over
Turning over um through our family photo and albums helps um it is easy to bring bags with memories
We shared with them
While i'm talking and thinking about this some clipse from the past
Just a flash back in my head
You know i remember when i was in from primary school
One day it rained really
You know
Heavily
I didn't bring an umbrella
So i just decided to run home in the raing
But to my surprise
My dad showed up
To pick me up with an umbrella
You know it's like a super hero
And me you know i still remember that they clearly even the little sounds
The rin
The wsstll of leaves under our feet as we walked
You know still still there
The umbrella wasn't big enough to cover both of us
But i put my arms around his neck
And i felt so safe and secure at that moment
I knew no matter what happened my dad would protect me
Even if it meant putting himself in danger
You know think about it when you are a little kid
You often feel helpless
And like you can't control anything right
Your parents are basically your whole world you rely on them
And you think they are the smartest
Strongest and the most knowledgeable people ever right you are surrounded by their love
And maybe um after a while it's easy to take that for granted
But when we look back
We realize they've ve given us everything we need
We needed to grow up right
Like love
Care
Company
Comfort
Support respect
Like everything right
I believe we are what we experienced without even noticing the things
Our parents said and did have become a part of who we are
So maybe one day when our parents are no longer in our lives will still carry their dna
And well holding on to what they hoped for us will keep searching for the meaning of our own lives
And um keep trying new things to find our true passion
And leave our lives to the folest
Because we only live once
And we owe it to ourselves to be the best version of the who we can be right the most important thing
Like i want to share a few quotes from the book
Spare to confort anyone who still struggling with the loss of their parents
Um here we go the things i found endlessly miss morizing about the stars was how far away
They all were the light you saw was born hundreds of the centuries ago in other words looking at the star
You were looking at the past
At a time alone
Before anyone you knew or lived
Had lived
Yes
That's all i wanted to share alright
Everyone so much for today
May you have a good night
God bless you bye bye
