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Be honest with yourself
When the topic of honesty comes up
The general tendency is to think about our relationship with others
We understand the need to be honest with people
If you cannot trust your neighbor to say the truth and your neighbor can't trust you to say the truth
What sort of social life will that produce if parents trutruchildren and children don't trutrust parents
What sort of family life will result it is understandable
Then why we have to be honest with each other
Honesty with yourself beyond honesty with others
However have you ever considered that your first responsibility is to be honest with yourself
If you cannot be honest with yourself
How can you be honest with others
If you can't confront the reality of your own life
How will you confront the realities of the lives of others
If you cannot face the truth about yourself
How can you tell the truth to others
The best you can be
Will be a hiypocrit
Who can remove the speack of dust in the eyes of others
Without regards for the log of wood and his own ice
Honesty with yourself as a way of life
You have to master
If you want to become the person
You want to be there are four areas where you need to be honest with yourself
If you aren't to make progress in life be honest about your strength
The first step to improvement and progress in life is critical self assessment
If you're not honest about what you can do and can't do
You will never improve be honest enough to admit what your strength are
There are two errors you need to avoid
First is to understand your strengths
To reduce your responsibility
Second is to overstage your strength
To make yourself look good
It is by taking up responsibility that is by taking up resibilities
That are intend them with our strength
That we grow and become better understating your strengths may make your life easier
But it will never help you become better progress in life
Comes when we take responsibilities
As we take responsibilities as much as our strengths
And we go through constant practice
However it is important
Not to overstage your strength
When you overstate your strength
You lose the opportunity to actually improve and increase your strength
The fake can never compare with the real a strength
You disguise to look good and learn
It will never serve you in the long term compared to a strength
You actually developed do you want to grow and become the best version of yourself
Be honest about your strengths
Overstate it and don't understate it be honest about your weaknesses
This is where you need to be brutally honest with yourself
We all have weaksses ses re's
Re's great strenggthen adadmitting our aknesses
It proviprovides opportunities to grow however just like your strength
Don't derestimate your weaknesses
And don't overrestimate them
When you're over estimate your weaknesses
You will become too harsh with yourself
Then miss many opportunities
Thinking you cannot do it when you can
There's nothing more sad and backward
Than thinking you cannot
When you can on the other hand
When you underestimate your weaknesses
You deceive yourself then miss opportunities to turn your weaknesses into strength
The other problem is that people who are not honest about their weaknesses
Tend to have problems and their social relationships be honest about your weaknesses
Be honest about your goals
Your goals are valid but not all of them are valid now or in the next five years be honest about what you can achieve now
What you can achieve in the next five years and in the next twenty years is a waste of time and strength
When you seek to achieve a five year goal in six months
Or six months goal in five years
Honesty about your capacities and priorities will help you to live an ordered life
Where you can have short term
Medium term and long term goals
When you are dishonest with yourself
You become anxious and forget that life is meant to be lived in stages and what you do in a year is not what defines your entire life
It allows you to take the long term view and live life step by step like a man climbing a letter
Honesty with others
When you have learned to be honest about your strengths
Weaknesses
Goals
Then you can be honest with others
You cannot give what you don't have
