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You know
Not everyone is going to like you
Not everyone is going to accept you or appreciate you
In fact
There will be many who dislike you
Who will judge you
Criticize you
And that's just the way is you can't please everyone now certainly we should be considered of others
We should be respectful
And we should be watchful of our own behavior
And if someone criticizes
So so it may be worth reflecting upon it to see
If perhaps there is something we may need to address in our behavior
But even if for the kindest gentlest sweetest most respectful person on the planet
They're simply going to be those who will find all kinds of reasons not to like you
And you just have to accept that
What i found to be a really powerful piece of advice is to simply allow others the freedom not to low you to allow them the freedom to disagree with you to judge you
To think less of you
After all everyone is entitled to their own opinion
Even if that opinion is entirely basis
But by allowing them to dislike you
What you're actually doing is recognizing that they don't need your permission
They're going to do it
Whether you permit them to or not
But what you're actually doing is letting go of the need to control what others think
Because you can't control them
If someone doesn't approve of you
The way you are
You can perhaps try to change some aspect of yourself
In order to win their approval
But chances are they'll just find something else to criticize
Because that's just what they do
And just like to criticize so no matter what you do
Theylikely going to find something to criticize
So forget about it
And even if you can
When they're approval
There's just going to be someone else who doesn't approve al
And you'll never please everyone so just allow others to have their opinions
You don't have to agree with them
You don't have to accept what they say all you're doing is recognizing that they have the right to think
Whatever they want to think all you're doing is respecting that freedom
And it's such a liberating thing
When you begin to do this
When you give up needing to have other people's approval or needing to control what others think of you
You find your own freedom in that
And what you also find is that most people who don't like you are really struggling to like themselves
And they may be deeply miserable a bitter
But as soon as you'let go the the need for them to like you
You find a certain level of peace in that
And can say whatever they want
And it only affects them
It doesn't have to affect you
It all you just go on with your life
Doing what you do and don't be bothered by it
What's important is whether not you like you
Whether not you accept yourself
Whether not you appreciate yourself and none of action depend on what anyone else thinks you have to see that for yourself
And when you do you stop caring what other people think and life is so much more pleasant
That way you become free to do
So much more to do
What you feel passionate and inspire to do
To share your gifts
Your creativity or compassion
And anyone who doesn't appreciate that
That's their loss
You let them worry about that
