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everyonewelcometoanotherdeepdiveum
todayweregoingtobedoingthingsalittlebitdifferently
weregoingtobeexploringafascinatingconceptcalledflipthinking
oh
ilikethesoundofthatalreadyyes
allaboutapproachingchallengeswithaplayfultwist
andyouknowmeimallaboutfindingcreativesolutions
sowerehavingdeepintoaberholdggangstersbook
flipthinking是有trustme
itspackedwithinsightsthatwillchangehowyoulookatproblemsiveheardagangster
hisworkisprettypopular
rightyeah
definitelyhesbeenleadingworkshopsandtrainingsessionsforyears
showingpeoplehowtoputflipthinkingintoaction
itsnotjusttheoryoryanditspracticalstuff
exactlyhesworwithcompanies
indivividualsunamitandgetthisheswrittenthirteenbooksonthetopicthirteen
wow
hemustreallybeontosomethingandhissuccessisntntlitedtoonecountry
eitherhisbookshavesoldoveramillioncopiesinthethllandsalone
andthevebeentranslatedintomultiplelanguages
okayimconvincedthisguystherealdeal
butbeforewegetintothetechniques
imcuriousaboutgunster
himselfhestartedtedthetheateracademy
andutractworkedintheater
whatstheconnectionbetweentheaterandproblemsolving
rightyou
youwouldnttypicallylinkthosetwotogetheritsfascinatingactually
itslikehebringsthiselementofcreativityandoutoftheboxthinkingfromhistheaterbackground
sowouderaproblemsolving
icanseehowthatwouldbeapowerfulcombination
sohowdoesflipthinkingactuallyworkimallfortransformingfrustration
buthowdowedothatwhilegunsterstartsbytacklingthisconcept
weallknowtoowell
hecallsityes
yesbutdragonyesyes
ddraon
whatsthatitsthatinnervoice
weallhavethatvoice
thatshootsdowneverynewideawithalistofreasons
whyitwontwork
youknowthatvoice
itsacreativitykiller
yeah
iknowthatvoicealltoowell
itslikeaconstantnegativitymachine
exactly
andguntersays
thisvoiceisamajorobstacletoinnovationandgrowth
itkeepsastuckinaredokay
sohowdoweslaythisyesbudddragontowiththeyesandmindsetcomesinitsaboutembracingpossibilities
insteadofshuttingthemdownitsabouttransformingobstaclesintoopportunities
soitslikesayingokay
thismightbeachallenge
ADhereshowwecanmakeitwork
exactlyinsteadoffocusingonthereasons
whysomethingwonworkworkthatlookthewaysitcouldwork
weshiftourperspectivefromlimitationstopossibilities
thisisstartingtomakesense
sowhataresomerealworld
examplesofflipthinkinginaction
ogangsterhastononsofexamplesinhisbookonethatreallyistedouttome
wasaboutaplay
hedirectedinchicago
itinvolvedhomelessandvisuals
andwasgettingalotofattention
evencnnwastheretocoverit
butonopeningnightoneoftheactorsdidntshowup
oh
notalkaboutanightmarescenario
whattheydomostdirectorswouldpanaccorate
butgunsterinthisteam
theysoughtasanopportunity
anopportunity
howinsteadoftryingtohidetheactors
absincetheincorporatedintotheperformance
itbecamethispowerfulstatementabouttheunpredicabilityoflifeonthestreets
theaudiencewasblownawaybytherawauthenticityofitallwstewthatsincredible
theyflitapotentifuldisasterintoitevenmorepowerfulperformance
exactlytheyembracetheunexpected
anditpaidoffbigtime
thatsagreatexampleofthinkingonyourfeetinbeingadaptabledoyouinanotherone
absolutelytheresthisstoryaboutadutchTVhostpauldleu
duringalivebroadcast
astrikerranontothesetshoutingaboutanimalcruelty
oh mygosh
thatsaliveTVnighmare
whatdidhedo
nowmosthostswouldfreakoutorcuttocommercial
butpaulhedidsomethingcompletelydifferent
heembracedthedisruption
heembraceit
whathemean
heacknowledgethestreakerfinishededsesement
andthengavetheguy
the
thefloor
heflipped
could
couldbeen
beenachaocsituationintoanengagingpartoftheshow
thatwhilehejustrolledwithit
exactly
andthatsakeyelementofflipthinking
sometimesthebestsolutionscomefromacceptingtheunexpectedandworkingwithitratherthanagainstit
soitsaboutadaptability
beingopentochange
preciselyandgunsteractuallybreaksdownthiswholeflipthinkingprocessintotwomainsteps
deconstructionandreconstruction
construction
questionandreconstruction
okayimintriguedtellmemoresofirstyoudeconstructtheproblem
youstripawayalltheassumptions
judgmentsandemotionalbaggagewetendtopileon
soitsaboutgettingtotheheartofthematter
withoutlettingouremotionscloudarejudgment
exactly
andthenonceyouvestrippedaway
allthatextrastuff
youmoveontoreconstruction
whatdoesreconstructioninvolvethatswhereyoulookattheproblemwithfresheyesandaskyourself
andcouldthisbecomecomenewpossibilitiesemerge
whenitsapproachitfromadifferentanglelesoitsnotaboutdenyingtheproblem
butratherseeingitasastartingpointforsomethingnewyougotit
andtoguideusonthisjourneyofreframingorthinking
gunsterlaysoutsevenkeyprinciples
sevenprinciples
okimimreadytotakenotes
right
thefirstprincipleisacceptance
nowthisisntaboutgivingup
itsaboutacknowledgingwhatwecantchangeandfocusingourenergyonwhatwecansoaboutchoosingourbattles
wiselyandnotwastingenergyonthingswecantcontrol
exactly
andgunsteractuallytellsthisgreatstoryaboutashipcaptaintoillustratethispoint
thiscaptainnearlycausedacollision
becausehemusttookalighseforanothervesselinthickfog
ohwow
thatsscaryitis
andithighlightshowourperceptioncanbesecued
andhowresistingrealitycanleadtodisaster
sosometimesthebestcourseofactionissimplytoacceptwhatisandadapptaccordingly
exactly
itsaboutworkingwithrealitynotagainstit
okay
thatmakesenitwhats
thenextprinciple是的
对的
thesecondprincipleisobservation
itsaboutchallengingourassumptions
andtrulyseeingwhatsinfrontofus
notwhatweexpecttosee
ithinkweallhaveatendencatedjumptoconclusion
sometimewedo
wefilterinformationthroughourownbiases
andoftenmimicrucicidetadetails
itslikewereseeingwhatwewanttosee
notwhatsactuallythereoftenanexampleplethisfromthebook
gangsterusesthisfascinatingexperimentwithseminarystudentstoillustratethispoint
sothesestudentsareontheirwaytogiveatalkaboutthegoodseminarium
right
oaysotheretimetohelpothersexactly
butastheyrewalkingtheypassperpercolcolpsedonongroundmoaninginpain
imeantheywouldstoptohelpright
imeanthesearefuturereligiousleader
youwouldthinkso
butheresathingonlyfortypercentofthemactuallystoptohelptherest
justwhatwrrightpassthepersoninneed
thatsunbelievable
whatweretheythinking
theyweresofocusedongivingtheirtalkabouthelpingothers
thattheycompletelyoverlooksomeonewhoactuallyneededhelpinthatmoment
thatsapowerfulreminder
thateventhemostwellintentionpeoplecanfallradetedtelevision
exactlywegetfixatedonourownagendas
thatwemisswhatsrightinfrontofus
itsahumblingrealization
forsuresowetobeawareofourownbiasascesandchallengeresumptionsabsolutelyokay
movingontoprincipalnumberthree
thisonesaboutredefiningproblems
redefiningproblemswhatdoyoumeanbythatwellgunsterchallengesthisnotionthatproblemsexistobjectively
hearguesthatproblemsarrisefromthegapbetweenourdesiresandreality
itsnotthesituation
itsofofthatstheproblem
itsourperceptionofitso
itsaboutshiftingperspectiveonthethesituation
exactlyandtoillustratethispoint
gunstersharesthisfunnyanecdoteaboutanargumentwithhissonovertheshowerhead
ashowerheadadargumentokay
imcurious
soforgunster
theshowerhadbeentoolow
wasaproblem
rightcanseehowthatwouldbeannoying
butforhisson
itwastheidedealsituation
heloveditsowhatmightbeamajor
itsforonepersoncouldbeanonissueforanother
exactlyitallcomesdowntoourindividualpreferencesandexperiences
thatsagreatpoint
soitsnotaboutdenyingthechallenges
butratheraboutshiftingourperspectiveonthem
exactly
andthatcanbeincrediblyliberating
icanseethatokay
whatsthenextprinciple
thisonemightsurpriseyou
itsaboutembracingstressandinstabilitywithstressisntstresssupposemeabadthing
notalwaysgunsterdrawsonthisconceptofantifragility
antivigility
ihaventheardofthat
itstheideasystemsandorganismscancanactuallygrowstrongerthroughstress
butwhatdoesntkillyou
makesyoustronger
okayigetit
buthowdowedifferentiatebetweenhealthystressandchronicoverwhelmingstress
thatsagreatquestion
anditssomethinggunsteraddressesinthebook
heemphasizestheimportanceofcontrolledstress
heactuallyusestheexampleofderekcllatonamarathonrunner
whoachievedhispersonalbestafterbeingforcedtotakeabreakduetoaninjury
sotheenforcedrestallowedhisbodytorecoverandcomebackstronger
preciselyandthesameprincipleappliestoourmentalandemotionaltionalwellsowechchallengesto
butwealsoneedtimetoprocessandrecover
soitsaboutfindingthatbalancebetweenpushingourselvesandallowingourselvestorestandrechargeexactly
okay
readyforprinciplenumberfivefiveetetmewithit
thisoneisallaboutaescapingstuckthinkingthatfeelingofbeingtrappedinacycleofnegativityandfrustration
ohiknowthatfeelingalltoowelllikekidabrickwall
andnotknowinghowtomoveforwardexactlyandtobreakfreefromthisgunsteroffersapracticalframeworkintheformoffourpowerfulquestion
fourquestionssorrightimallyears
thefirstquestioniswhatistheproblem
itseemssimple
rightyeah
prettyfreeforward
butgunstopointsout
thatweoftendontdefineproblems
clearlywecomplainorfeeloverwhelmedwithoutactuallypinpointingtherealissue
sothefirststepistoarticulatetheprobleminaclearandconciseway
exactly
thesecondquestionis
isitreallyaproblem
ohthatsagoodone
itsaboutchallengingourassumptionsandperspectives
oweblowingthingsoutofproportion
itswecrecreproblems
werennexexiitsaboutpuputtingthingsintoperspectiveandnotsweatingthesmallstuff
exactly
nowthethirdquestiongetsalittlemorepersonal
itsareyoutheproblem
oh
thatsatoughonetofaceitis
butitscrucialforbreakingfreefromnegativepatternsareweblamingexternalcircumstances
wheninreality
ourownactionsorattitudesarecontributingtotheissue
sometimesweneedtotakeahardlookinthemirror
acknowledgeourownroleinthesituation
exactlyandfinally
thefourthquestionis
istheproblem
theintentionistheproblem
theintentionthatsaninterestingwaytophraseit
itisitsaboutchallengingourassumptions
aboutwhatconstitutesofproblemandbeingopentothepossibility
thatwhatweperceiveasaproblem
mightactuallybeasteppingstonetosomethingbetter
soitsaboutshiftingourperspectiveandlookingforthehiddenpotentialinchallengingsituations
yougotitumallrightreadyforprinciplenumbersixbringitonthisoneiscalledamplification
itsaboutfocusingonwhatsworkingratherthanfixatingonwhatsbroken
soinsteadofalwaystryingtofixprobleproblesoyougotready
是的 对的
identifiedandamplifiedourstrength
exactly
whatifwefocusedonnurturing
whatsalreadythrivinglikelookingforthesilverlining
findingthepositivesinbuildingonthempreciselyitsamuchmoreempoweringapproachthanconstantlydwellingonwhatswrong
anditsnotaboutdenyingtheexistenceofproblems
itsaboutchoosingwherewedirectourenergyandattention
exactly
gunsteractuallyusesthisexampleofcompaniesthatfocusedondissatisfiedcustomers
whileoverlookingthereasons
whythemajorityoftheircustomersarehappy
iyes
itslikemissingtheworseforthetrees
itisareunfinallyprinciplenumberseven
thisoneisallaboutunderstandingthefourbasicattitudes
wecanadoptwhenfacingchallengesfourattitudesokayimlistening
thefirstattitudeislove
loveithoughtweweretalkingaboutproblem
solvingweare
butwhengunstertalksaboutlove
hesreferringtoamindsetrootedinacceptancereconciliationandpatients
itsaboutapproachingproblemswithcompassionandunderstanding
evenwhenthingsseemdifficpear
soitsaboutleadingwithempathyandlookingforthegoodandpeopleinsituations
exactly
thesecondattitudeiswork
okaythatmakesense
someonehesjusttorollupysleavesandgetthingsdone
exactly
noamountofflipthinking
canmagicallymakeaproblemdisappearthroughsoworkisaboutrecognizingthatsomeproblemsrequireeffortandpersistence
exactly
thethirdattitudeisbattle
battlethatsoundsabitmoreaggressive
itisitsaboutrecognizingthatnoteveryonewillbeonyourside
andthatssometimesyouneedtofightforwhatyoubelieveit
itsaboutbeingassertiveandknowingwhentostandyourground
exactlyandfinallythefourthattitudeisplayplay
howdoesthatfitinitsaboutapproachingproblemswithasenseofhumorcreativityandawillingnessbendendthelessoitsaboutnottakingyourselvestooseriouslyfindingjoyintheprocess
exactlyandwhatssobrilliantaboutthesefourattitudesisthattheyrenotmutuallyexclusivemeaning
wecandrawdifferentattitudesdependingonthesituation
exactly
sometimesweneedtobecompassionate
sometimesweneedtobeassertive
sometimesweneedtobuckledownandwork
andsometimeswejustneedtolightenupandhavealittlefun
itslikehavingawholetwokidofapproachtochoosefrompreciselynowtohelpusputtheseattitudesintopractice
gunsterdivesintoelevenspecificstrategiesforflip
thinkinghecallsthesestrategies
theluggage
theluggageokayilikethatanalogy
itslikewerepackingourbagsforajourneyofproblemsolving
andthesestrategiesarethetoolswillneedalongtheway
sowegottheprinciples
theattitudedes
andnowweabouttounpackthestrategies
thatsrightwerejustgettingstartimexcitedtoseewasinthisluggage
metoo
itsgoingtobeawildrioohrightsowereandready
readytoimpackthefirstfirstfourstrategiesinflilipininkinggggegeareyoureadytodiveinabsolutelytheokay
sothefirststrategyiscalledthestrategyofacceptance
acceptanceitsoundsprettypassiveforastrategyaboutflippingyourethinkingiknowright
butitsallaboutembracingrealityevenwhenitsnotidealandusingthatacceptancetouncoverhiddenopportunitiesmokay
soitsnotaboutgivingup
butratheraboutseeingrealityforwhatitisandworkingwithexactlysoitsnotthatstoryabouttheshipcaptainofstakingkinglighthouseforanothervessel
yeahthewasagoodone
itshowedhowresistingrealitycanleadtodisaster
exactly
sosometimesthebestcourseofactionistosimplyacceptwhatisandadaptsohowdoweactuallyapplythisstrategyandreallifetohaveaexamplefromthebook
oneofmyfavoriteexamplesisfromthemovie
raorsofthelawstarkrememberscene
whereindianajonesiscontedtedbyssdsman
yeahresteadofthatwasexpectinganepicswordfightmetoo
butinsteadofthisbigelaboratefightscene
indianajonesjustshootsthesourdman
hejustshootshim
whatahwhatturnsoutharrisonjoneswhoplayedindianajoneswassickthatday
andcouldnthandledemandingchoographyisladyimproviseexactly
andtheyturnthatlimitationintooneofthemosticonicmomentsinthemovie
wow
thatsbrilliantwellitsaperfectexampleofhowembracingconstraintscanleadtounexpectedcreativity
exactly
andthisstrategycanbeappliedtosomanysituationsinlife
okay
imstartoseehowthisworkswhatsthenextstrategy
thenextoneiscalledthestrategyofwaiting
waitingisntabitpassive
especially
whenweretalkingaboutflipthinking
iknowitseemskindofuntitudetiverightbutgunsteremphasizesthatsometimesthewisestcourseofactionisactuallyinactionsoitsaboutbeingpatientandtrusting
thattherightopportunitywillpresentitselfexactlyweliveinaculturethatvaluespeedandaction
butsometimesthebestsolutionistosimplywayandobserve
soitsaboutchoosingourbattleswiselyandnotjumpingintoaction
prematuallyyougotit
itsaboutbeingstrategicinourinaction
thatmakessense
whataboutthenextstrategy
thenextoneisthestrategyamplifying
amplifyingwhatdoesthatmeanitsaboutshiftingourfocusfromwhatsbrokentowhatsworkinginsteadoffixatingonproblems
whatifweidentifyourstrengthandamplifythemilikethissomuchmorepositiveapproach
exactly
andgunsterusesthisexampleofcompaniesthatfocusondissatisfycustomers
whileoverlookingthereasons
whythemajorityoftheircustomersarehappytheyremissingtheforestforthetrees
exactly
anditssoeasytofallentothattrap
wegetsocaughtupintryingtofixwhatswrong
嗯kthatweforgettonurturewhatsright
sohowdoweapplythestrategyinreallife
oneofthemostinspiringexamples
gunstersharesisthestoryofhowblindwomeningermanyarebeingtrainedtodetectbreastcancer
earlywewhatblindwomendetectingbreastcancer
howsthatpossible
itturnsoutthatbecausetheyrelysoheavilyontheirsenseoftouch
theycanoftendetecttumorsthatdoctorsmissduringtraditionalexaminations
wow 是的 对的
thatsincredible
sowhatwasinitiallyperceivedasalimitationhasactuallybecomeavaluableasset
exactly
andithighlightsthepowerofshiftingourperspectiveandamplifyingastrength
thatmighthaveotherwisebeenoverlookedthatsoundthatexample
ok
whatsthefinalstrategyinthisset
thefinalstrategyiscalledthestrategyofdisruptingrurutingtingsoundabitrebelous
itisinaway
itsaboutaboutallengingtherulesofdisrotingtionsthatareholdingusback
soitsaboutthinkingoutsidetheboxandshakingthingsup
exactlysometimesits
itsaboutthedeliberatelyprovocativetogetpeoplesattentionandforcethemtoreevaluatetheirassumptions
okay
icanseehowthatwouldbeeffective
yeah
someasyouneedtomakeastatementtogetpeopletolistenpreciselyandgunsttersharesagreatexampleofastrategiingandaction
rememberthatstoryaboutthepostalworker
whowereaddresstoworktoprotestthenoshortsrule
yeah
irememberthat
itwasalloverthenews
itwasabrilliantactofdisruption
itchallengedtheobsurdityoftheruleandsparkaconversationaboutoutdateddresscodeandultimatelyledtoachangeinpolicy
exactlyitsaperfectexampleofhowchallengingthestatusquocancreatepositivechange
ilikethat
sothesefirstfourstrategiesareallaboutshiftingourperspectiveexceptingrealityanddisracingconstrength
amplifyingourstrengthsanddisruptingthestatusqual
exactlytheyrealllookingatchallengesininnewunlightandfindincreativesolutions
sowhatsnextwhatotherstrategiesdoesgunsterhaveuphisbelievefright
soweveexplloredthosefirststrategies
andlearnhowtoshiftingstperspectiveembraceconstraintsamamlifiourstrengthsevendisscruptatatquo
buttheresstillmoretounpackinthisflipthinkingluggage
youknowitsfascininnowthosefirstvingveletsthestageforthesenextstratees
whichdelveintothosefourbasicattitudesfornavigatingchallenges
righttheloveworkbattleandplayattitudessoletsdiveintolove
imreallycuriousabouthowloveplaysaroleinproblemsolvingwellwhengunstertalksaboutlove
hesnottalkingaboutromanticloveofcourt
itsmoreaboutapproachingchallengeswithasenseofcompassion
acceptanceandpatients
itsaboutseeingthepotentialforgoodinpeopleinsituations
evenwhenthingsaretough
soitsaboutleadingwithempathyandunderstanding
tryingtoseethingsfromtheotherpersonsperspectiveexactlyandonestrategythatreallyembodies
thisattitudeisthestrategyofforgiveness
forgivenessicanseehowthattiintoloveattitidedehowdoesforgivenessactuallyhelpussolveproblems
itseemsmorelikeapersonalemotionalthing
itsbothactuallyishewhenweholdontoresentinanger
itwasesdown
itpreventsusfromseeingclearlyandfindingcreatedsolutions
soforforgivenessaboutlettinggoofthatnegativityandfreingingourselvestothinkmoreclearly
precisely
anditsnotaboutcondoningbadbehavior
butratheraboutreleasingthenegativeenergy
weholdonto
whenwerefusetoforgive
itsaboutrecognizingthatholdingontoangerhurtsus
morethanhurtstheperson
wereangrywithigetthat
butforgivenesscanbereallyhard
especially
whensomeonehashurtusdeeply
anytipsonhowtocultivateforgivenesswellstartswithrecognizingthatforgivenessisaprocess
notadestination
ittakestimeandeffort
onetechniquethatcouldbehelpful
istotrytoseethesituationfromtheotherpersonsperspective
trytounderstandwhatmighthavemotivatedthemtoactthewaytheydidwheretheyhurting
wheretheyactingatafearorinsecurity
thatsagoodpoint
wheretimesherfulactionscomefromaplaceofpain
seeingthingsfromtheirperspective
canmakeiteasiertoletgoodoftheangerandresentmentexactlyandremember
forgivenessisultimatelyaboutfreingyourself
itsaboutlettinggooftheburdenofangerandresentment
soyoucanmoveforwardwithalighterheart
okaythatmakessense
soforgivenessisapowerfulflickthinkingtoolforreleasingnegativityandopeningourselvesuptonewpossibilities
whatabouttheworkattitude
whatstrategiesfallunderthatcategoryworkstrategiesareallaboutrecognizingthatsometimeschallengesrequiredgreat
whatsiteenceandandwillingnesstoputintheeffort
nomagicsolutions
herejustgoodoldfashionhardworkanddedication
sometimesyoujustgottorollupyourfleevesandgetthingsdone
noshortcuts
exactlyandonestrategythatnobodysthisspiritisthestrategyofperseveringrememberthatstoryaboutthomascitizenandhisrelenentlesspursuitoftherightfilamonforthelightbob
oh yeah
hefamouslysaidihaventfailed
ijustfoundtenthousandwaysthatwontwork
exactlyhedidntseesetbacksasfailuresbutratherassteppingstonesonthepthsofsuccess
andthatsthekeytoperseveringembracingtrialerrorlearningfromyourmistakesandrefusingtogiveupitsabouthavingthatunwaveringbeliefinyourselfandyourabilitytoovercomechallenges
nomatterhowmanytimesyoustumble
thatsit
itsaboutrecognizing
thatthejourneytosuccessisoftenmessyandunpredictable
therewillbeobstaclesandsetbacks
butasyourabilitytoperseverethatwillultimatelydetermineyoursuccessokay
imfeelinginspired
whataboutthebattleattitude
whatstrategiesfallunderthatcategorybattlestrategiesareallaboutrecognizingthatsometimesyouneedtofightforwhatyoubelieveintheyreaboutstrategizingmanagingconflictandknowwingststanddsgrounso
sothisisbeing
beingasserofofknoknowwhentopushbackrightright
exactlyitsaboutchosingyourbattleswiselyandbeingwillingtostandupforyourourself
evenwhenitsuncomfortableonestrategythatfallsunderthisattitudeisthestrategyofeliminating
eliminatingwhatdoesthatmean
exactlyitsaboutrecogniingthatsometimesthebestsolutionistocutyourlosses
stopdoingwhatsnotworkingandcreatespaceforsomethingnew
itsaboutdeclutterteringyourlifeandmakingroomfornewpossibilities
soitsaboutlettinggoofwhatsnolongerservingus
whetheritsaproject
arelationshiporevenjustbbhahabit
exactlyitsaboutrecognizing
somethingsomethingrunitscourseandhavingthecouragetoletitgo
gunstersharesareallyinterestingexampleofhowthisstrategywasusedtoaddressthelittleprobleminthenewyorkcitysubwaysystem
duringoverthat
oh yeah
ithinkireadaboutthat
好的 好的
didnttheytryaddingmoretrashcans
butitdidntactuallyreducethelitter
theydidforyearstheykeptaddingmoretrashcans
butthelitterjustkeptpilingup
thensomeonehadthisradicalidearemoveallthetrashcansfromacoupleofstations
seriouslythatseemscounterintuitive
whathappenedresultswereamazinglelitterdroppedsignificantlyinthosestationsturnsout
whentherewerenotrashcansreadilyavailablepeopleweremorelikelytotaketheirtrashwiththem
wow
thatsthegreatexampleofhowchallengingourassumptionscanleavetounexpectedsolutions
sometimesthebestwaytosolveaproblemistosimplyremovethethingthatseemstobecausingtheproblem
exactly
andthatsthepowerofthestrategyofeliminating
sometimesthemosteffectivesolutionistosimplyremovetheobstaclealtogetherokay
imstartingtoseehowthesebattlestrategiescanbereallyeffective
whatabouttheplayattitudethisoneseemsabitmorelighthearted
itisplyststrategiesareallaboutapproachingchallengeswithasensivehumancreativityandawillingnesstobeentherules
therewereremindernottotakeourselvestooseriouslyanddefinejoyintheprocess
evenwhenthingsaretough
wecouldallusealittlemoreofthatplaayonthisinourlives
especially
whenwerestressedoutandoverwhelmeditssoeasytogetboggeddownintheseriousnessofitallum
whatsanexampleofaplaystrategyonethatreallycapturesthespirittoplayisthestrategyoflaanting
是的是的
itsaboutembracingwhatweusuallytrytohide
turningourperceivedflawsourproblemsintoassets
soitsaboutowningourimperfectionsandmakingthempartofouruniquecharm
exactly
itsaboutrecognizingthatwhatweperceiveweaknessescanactuallybestrengththanddisguisegunsteruseoftheexampleofthecorevymuseumkentutukkymembermberthatmassivesinkleopenedupunderthemuseum
oh yeah
thatwasacrazystory
thosepoorcororevets
wellinsteadoftryingtorepairsincleandhihidethedamage
themuseumdecidedtoembraceit
theyleftthesinholeasitwaswiththecarsstickingout
andturneditintoatouristattraction
nowaydidthatactuallyworkitdidpeopleflocktothemuseumtoseethesinholeandthedamagecorvets
theyevenstartedsellingverchanandizefeatuuringthesinhole
theyaperfectexampleofhowflippingyourperspectiveonaproblemcanturnitintoanopportunity
ilovethatitsaboutturninglemonsintolemonador
inthiscase
sinklegolsintotouristattractions
whatotherplaystrategiesarethereanothergreatoneisthestrategyofarolereversal
itsaboutsteppingintotheotherpersonshoestoshiftthedynamicandgainafresresperspespetivegunnstertellsthestoryaboutateacher
whousedthestrategybrilliantlywithastudent
whoiscomplainedabouthisgradesthestudentwasupsetbecausehefeltlikehewasbeinggreatedunfairlycomparedtothegirlsinhisclass
thatsatoughsituation
howdidtheteacherhandleitinsteadofarguingthestudent
theteacherflipthescript
andsaidsomemelikeyeahwassurprisedtorealmenusuallygetatleastinaidhathatsawesome
whatagreatwaytodedisarmthestudentandshifttheenergyoftheconversation
itsaboutapproachingconflictwithasenseofplayfulnessratherthandefensiveness
itsaboutrecognizingthatsometimesthebestwaytoresolveaconflictistoshifttheenergyandcreatemorelightheartedatmosphere
ilovehowtheseplaystrategiesremindustolightenupandnottakeourselves
seriously
sometimesalittlehummandplaplaylnessnessgogolongway
absolutely
soweveexploredallthesestrategiesforflippingourthinking
嗯
fromacceptancetoperseverancetodisruption
toforgiveness
toplayfulness
itsaprettyamazingtoolkitfornavigatingthechallengesoflife
itisitslikegunsterhasgivenusawholenewwayofseeingtheworld
awaititsmorecreative
moreflexibleandultimatelymoreempoweringandthekeytakeaway
hereisthatflipthinkingisadeourney
notadestination
itsaboutcultivatingamindsetofcuriosityopennessandawillingnesstoseethingsdifferently
sothenexttimeyoufindyourfacingatly
对对
dontgetstuckinthat
yes
butcycleinsteadaskyourself
whatifthisisanopportunity
exactlythatsimpleshiftandperspectivecanopenupaworldofpossibilities
well
thatsaboutitforourdeepdiveintoflipthinking
thanksforjoiningusonthisincrediblejourneyandremember
keepexperimenting
keepplayingandkeepflippingthoseproblemsintopossibilities
thatswhatitsallabout
