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Evaluate where you are look at it assess yourself
Assess yourself and assess the situation
What brought you
There what is brought you to this point
What did you learn from it are you learning anything are you doing it over and over and over again
Somebody said that in saturday is doing the same thing in the same way
Expecting a different outcome
Don't let this year be like last
And it last year was great
Don't know little little it that way way raised the standard
Your life is perfect and extraordinary
You done well
No
You're 're going to be happy
That you
You keep make it a better
It what makes us feel alive
It's not what we get them make us happy at who we become and what we're able to give because we become more
If you want to begin to move
You've got to clear your mind of all the unnecessary luggage and baggage
That's wing us down
You're going to have people to do things to you
Things are going to happen to you
And the most important thing to do is to hard to show will and let it go and move
So you can grow
So you can get on with your life
It doesn't not about what happens to you
What matters is what are you going to do about it
If there's anything that shift your your life
The''re get you a thrive and a difficult situation is takes a masset action
Try something else change it
Try it
Move it
Progress equals happiness
If you can start to make progress
You
You need et yourself going
But i think not perfect
If it doesn't work
You know what they do just change your approach
That does a word change your approach so often in life
People don't begin the journey because and not quite sure what to do or how to do it right and how to do it perfect
You want to change your body
Did yourself move and don't wait for the perfect traitor
Just go and after your move put on your shows and move and get more mindton
I'm going to turn this situation around
I'm not going to sit back and
And moon and crowd about what happened and what went wrong
And who did what i'm going to do something about this situation
The other thing is take full responsibility for your life
Except where you are
And the responsibility that you're going to take yourself
Where you want to go
So one said we have two primary choices in life
We can either accept conditions as they exist
Or we can take the responsibility to change them
Say a lot of people want to exit themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem
Every time you see them
They are tell you their story
Over and over and over and over again
No no
You want to take responsibility for your life
I've to me here
I can get me out of this
And i'm getting out
I'm not going to be a volunteer victim
And so all you're looking for a new breakthrough to practice and practice and practice you'll get better better better better better
And there's still some things that will happen to you
That will catch you on the blind side
That you did not anticipate you get knock down
But you won't be knocked dug
So i say to you
It's possible
You can live your dream
If it's becoming a diamond
If the having momore it's is achieving moit's
It's being a better part of of being a better ad mother
Whatever it is overcoming the digit changing our society
It's possible you can live your dream
It's necessary
That you have a plan about you
That you're resiliving
That you stick to that you
You work with sysystem that you work with people
That you get support
And that you be there for them
That you have the visual and never give up
That you become creative and relictous
And keep on coming and again and and get and a good
And that is use
That you gotta take personal responsibility to make it happen
And that it's hard easy as not enough to have a life not cture down jump back computer
It not over over a talla weird a bite people and situations that upset
You see there are some people that know just how to push your bun
They know just what to say
But i'm not going to expand any energy arguing with any body
Life is too shorttly as with gentlemen and unpredictable
I don't want to spend my time arguing with anybody
So i've bought situations that will get me upset
I don't argue with people draw the line
Ladies in gentleman they're certain things that we just go through
Life just taking at at some point
You just got to draw the line
You just say enough is enough
You gota do that with yourself
One negative stroke is sixteen times more powerful than a positive stroke
And if you have people around you
Who not sensitive to who you are
And the people that can hurt you the most laves and gentleman of the people that you love
That you love they're the ones
That you're vulnerable to they're the ones that can get to you
They're there's insensitive
I don't care who they are
See
If you don't draw a lion with people
If you just let them run a rampit in your life
And you let things happen to you
That you don't feel good about
If you continue to allow to happen
You won't feel good about yourself
Your image of yourself really rode
So you got to draw the line
What do people just go to a job
Where they're miserable
Day and and day out
What do people stay together
They're miserable sleeping in separate rooms are arguing on the only thing
They haven't common paying the bill don't talk
Don't communicate
Don't share anything together day and and dout is short and unpredictable
That life is being mean to each other
What do people do that known hills are preferable to strange heavens
Because it's familiar say life is rop ladies and gentlemen
It's rock
It's scary
It's scary
Growing
It's scary taking a chance
It's scary acting on your intuition on your guts
It's scary
It's rightening
There are people that this tolerating things right now
And they are in mobilized by fear
They can see the hammer coming
And they are pretee and move
Because it's scary to go against the dominant thinking of your family friends and those people
You associate with every day is perhaps
The most difficult act of courage you will ever perform
See when you start growing
When you start changing the way
You walk the way
You talk the way
You act the way
You respond to things the way
You use your time
When you start say no
I can't do that why you're too busy
You don't have a time
I have my own agenda
So if people can put you on guilt trip
They will and use you and a buse
You over and over and over again
You got to draw the line
You have to draw the line
Honor don't go through
Like feeling like you're powerous victims of people that are powerless
You're not powerless
You are powerful
You direct the power in your life
Whatever your life is right
Now it is a duplication of your conscioussness
A result of how you have decided to use your power
That's all
It is that's not who you are
That's just a perverted use of your power
That you ou't satisfied with
And you got the power to change that
Wherever you are how i don't know
But i know you got the power to do that
But you don't know what has happened to me
It really doesn't matter
What is happened to you see the only thing that really matters is what are you going to do about it
That's all that matters
That's all that matters
The the you can allow it to destroy you
Or you can allow it to build you up
We never get to a level
Where we feel that there's nothing else for us to do
That we're achieved certain number of goals
And we figure that we 're through no no
You don't want to stay there and celebrate too long like a lot of people do they do something they consider outstanding they go around and talking about what they used to do
See limited i used to do this and not used to do that
Excuse me used to be don't make no honey
What are you doing
Now you still hear breathing
I means you got some more to give let's matter how old you all does matd about where you ought does matd about what you have doesn't matter about what you've done
Life is about growings
About being
Productive is about stretching
About challenging yourself
So you start looking around and decide
Hey hey
What else do
I want to do what
What got me here is a for celebration
But also a time for reflection
What got me here
What work
What did not work
What do i need to do to repeat
So that i can get the same kind of results in other areas of my life
If the goal is to improve my hl
If the goal is to improve my relationship
If the goal is to improve my income
If the goal is to improve something in society
What is that i need to do
Now don't get confused with what you do
With who you are
Don't trip
Don't go on some type of ego trip
But talk k about how bad
You are not of us do anything by ourselves developing appreciation for external support as well as good fortune
Because all of those things play a role
The other thing is don't go overboard celebrate
You must meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same you look at
Hey
I did it know
I feel good about that
Now you moving on to the next thing
Things did not work out
The way you wanted them to work out
You didn't produce the result
You wanted to produce
Hey
Miss that
When some you lose some next moving right on
Don't confuse who you are with what you do
And make your mind pural ground for the seats of opportunity thinking
You want to experience a sense of fulfill them
You got to have an open mind
So that ideas can come in in there
And take root and growth
