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偏偏接下来今天是是国妇妇女节
March
It is international proben 's day
That's little bit more
So do american people celebrate the day
They don't celebrate it as much as maybe other countries or probably should
But they're starting to celebrate a little bit more
嗯
也就是在美国的话
是不过这个三八妇女节的哈
所以就是nothing much happens
Nothing much happens
But recently it's become more popular
Maybe in the news or with celebrities
But normal people still don't do a lot for it
嗯
其实在中国可能就是会放半天假呀
然后给这个妇女就是弄一点花
Us there is national women's day on august is
But i think that celebrated even less than international womwoman's day
嗯
所以就是美国是有这个women's day
但是是在august eight
嗯哼
八月八号 嗯
但是我听说你们好像是有一个witneness march
Yeah
So this actually started in twenty seventeen
When donald trump was president and people very upset at him thousands of people got together on march seven thirty eighth
And they would march together for women to rights and to raise awareness about issues in relation to women
所
所以就是在在美的话
这个womwomenmarmarch
这个march 指的并不是三月
而是指的一种运动相当吧
Yeah
一般是在这个三月份开始对吧
三月七号七八号这样的
主要是想要争取一权利
女权运动运当当当
哼 嗯 Yeah
Every year around this time will actually only since twenty seventeen
But they will march together
Maybe thousands of people togegether
Um in big ties
Ties will be holding signs with different things and protesting and wanting to change things too
March 就是游行
所以呢
在美国是不太过这个三八妇女节的
但是三月份的时候呢
他们会有一个妇女游行
为女性争取一些权利
嗯
It recently has caused little bit of see or disapplant
Because sometimes the issues that they are protesting people disagree with
And so people can to see the march as different different things depending until are yeah
Sir
就有的时候这种尔这种游行的也会引起marcontroversy
就是引起一些争议对吧
但是今年应该没有了吧
因为这个conveye
因为疫情的原因还会有吗
I think you're doing things online this year
But i'm not to be sure
I knew some of it is online
But they might have good or marchts though with west people
因为疫情可能就是搬到网上去去了
在网上流行online women smart
说起这个妇女这个词儿来呢
我就会想起我们家发生过的一个景象
很有意思
就当时在寒假
我在客厅里面读书
然后呢
我妹妹呢正在梳头发
然后我爸爸就坐在那里
然后我爸看着正在读书的我
然后我爸就说
哎 你看
咱们家真权呀
然后指着正在读书的我说
你看 有才女
然后又指着正在梳头的我的妹妹
然后说 你看
还有美女
然后这个时候我妈妈就端着早餐进来了
然后爸爸说
看 还有妇女
That's really sounlike ssound like joke my father ther
Ther was really readiting
You know
Yeah 所以呢
就是说
当然在汉语当中就是称呼女性的话
一般有很多称谓
比如说女性啊
妇女啊
女孩啊
女人啊等等
那么在这个英语当中肯定也有different ways to talk about girls right yeah
There are so of course
There's the world girl
Which girl is someone who is younger
Maybe under er tea girl and then there's womwomwho is someone who is older and adult is a little bit more um grown up and maybe more yeah
All and grogroyeah ah and then re's also also female
But female is more of like a definition or scientifiction
Yelike male or female yeah
Male or female 就是男性或者女性
这也是称呼女性的一种方式
Female 去and then one way that is very polite and respectful
Would be lady yeah
Lady yeah if you were to maybe be at a show or performance
And they would take ladies and gentleman yeah
Lady 是更加正式的种称呼的方式
式就是你在汉语当中的话就是女士
所以呢
基本上来讲是有这四种称呼女性的方式
Girl 我们
Female and lady 所ah and of course there are disrespectful able to talk about womwomtoo though
Though you definitely have to to learn what ways right right and what trades are not yeah
It's true
It's true yeah
So if you are talking to a woman
Directly no never call all her woman lalady
所以就是说
如果我们去跟一个就是女同志来说话的话
我们不能直接叫她lady 吗
No
This is really rude
If so if you saw a man
And you said hey man or hey so man
Cause it would be very strange
啊
如果我们想直接去称呼这位女士什么的话
那我们应该怎么样去称呼女性呢
Hopefully
The best way is by saying mam
So you could say um good morning man or mam to get their attention or um yes man no man
所以我们可以直接说man maam right mam and then if you want to say their last name
So if their last name was smith
Then you would say this smith or mrs smet
嗯
所以是miss smith or mrs smith
哎
这个地方我觉得是有difference 哈
我们很多人可能会puzzled
我们在这个地方给大家澄清一下这个miss 还有mrs 它的区别
This is very confusing
Even it takes me a long time to remember um ms is for someone that is not married
Normally
It's for ounger and most important me she's just not married
所以呢
就好像在咱们一小集
小朋友们称呼所有的女老师都是miss 什么什么什么没有结婚的
或者说你不知道她是不是结婚的
你都可以称呼她miss
If you don't know if they're married or not it is safer to just say miss
Because you don't want to be rude or than then
So if you don't know it's better jff to say miss
Miss 后面加上她的名字就可以了对吧
Miss say la yeah
It's better to say miss smith and it she be married
Then say mrs smith and she isn't married than very awkward
Yeah
It's true
所以呢
就是如果在美国也是如果你
你
比如你嫁给了这个
呃
史密斯对吧
你就是mrs smith
Yes Yeah
Have you be mrs smith
所以比如说我
我的名字是偏偏哎
我丈夫的姓是赵
所以呢
可以有两种称呼我的方式
就是miss 偏翩或者说mrs 赵
Right ah
那就清楚了哈
One easy way to remember is how my mom tell me
When i was little is mrs has an extra r so it's like an extra person
When their relationship so so know know she made
Because there some are if i help your member ory that's good way
That is very mart
我一直有一个问题啊
就有的时候我们想要夸奖一个女性长得很漂亮
好像大家除了这个beautiful 或者是说pretty 还有cute 以及什么之类的这些之后
好像不知道该用什么词儿了
我们来一些特别别亮的词儿来夸一夸我们身边的美丽的女性们吧
嗯
The get one no ones of course are pretty and beautiful and um maybe gorgeous
Gorgeous
Yeah
Gorgeous
I like this word
Because it sounds like what it means gorgeous 这个词真特特好好
要再用这个beautiful 或者说pretty 了
可以尝试用这个gorgeous
就是颜值超级高那样的
Yeah
Another one you might hear someone say is she is a ten
She is a ten
Ten
Yeah
It's kind of like if you were to give him a great out ten
So saying she is ten at a ten
百分之百的right
满分的she is a ten 就是指she 是一个满分美人吗
Ah a few other ways
You could say she looks fine
She looks fine ine 拉长后面那个音就是fine
She looks fine
夸张一点
And that's why normally a annual say too 啊
就是男士会用这个来描述他见到了一个让他难以忘怀的这种美女哈
嗯
You could also say she is stunning
She's stunning
Stunning 就是那种惊艳的right
Yeah
Yes and stunning
A boy a man or women can use this
嗯 Then um
You could say she is bread
Taking breath
Taking breath 就是呼吸美的让你窒息
She's bread taking it takes your breath
Way you
You could say ais draw dropping ly gorgeous
哇
这个真的so draaddicous
No
就是你的下巴
Daw dropping ly gorgeous
就raw 你掉下巴的那种美
She's draw dropping ly gorgeous
嗯
You could also say she is like model material
她像一个干模特那行的是不是
She's like a model material
嗯
有做模特的料子
Yeah
Exactly you could say she is something else
She is something else as one is a little bit more like slame
It's not as professional
嗯
But it basbasally means an
She is just so beautiful
She fits into another group or another category
She's so different than everything else
所以呢
就是说she is something else
也是就是美的不像话
美ah 好像不是这个世界的的
嗯
Yeah
Last one that i hear people say is she looks i can angel
嗯
She looks like an angel
就是她像一个天使一样
就这种一般是指那种就是说更清纯一点的那种女生
可以说she looks like an angel
那说到这个女性哈
还有就是跟这个西方的这种女性打交道的话
可能有一些需要注意的地方
在西方的话
尤其在美国的话
是不能问她年龄的对不对
Yeah
You can ask children the age
But maybe when they get in middle school or high school school
You should ask what great
They're not
They're h
And then when they're grown up and they're women
You shouldn't ask about her age at all
而且还应该还有别的吧
比如说wait
Yeah
Definitely never talk about her weight
Don't talk about ah definher close
Maybe look different or it
Yeah
I think you lost weight or maybe so did you gain weight
Never talk about her weight
嗯 啊 对
这个要特别注意的
因为我们有的时候中国人特别喜欢
就是为了表示weare close 你知道吗
就是表示关心
有的时候说
哎
你最近是不是胖了
你最近是不是瘦了
You are gaining some weight or are you losing weight
不管是轻了还是重了
但是记住这个weight 体used 这个事是不能聊的
Right fuckling because even if you are trying to complimenter and say oh
Did you lose weight so maybe be offended because she can hear saying she used to be fast 啊
所以这个也是不能说的
尽管你是在trying to complament
所以可以试着一些别的方式嘛
比如说啊
I like your dress
我者一个好hair
Right
Something like that
不要talk about sweet
No
And even more important than is you should never ask a woman if she's pregnant
这个千万不能问哇
这个
这个很尴尬的
就是之前我有一个好朋友
就他去一家家那个母婴店嘛
然后他进去的时候
然后别人就问他
哎呀
你怀孕了吗
然后完了之后他说我已经生完了好不
No
所以不要问人家是不是怀孕了
应该英文脱口秀
对
也不要说哎
你最近看起来很憔悴啊
或者说你是有点累啊
这种在西方也是不太礼貌的哈
嗯
Or if they have
嗯
Bags er er eyes yes shouldn't pointed out
It will be very offended and wonder
Why you're asking
对
黑眼圈也好
还是眼袋也好
就是bags under your eyes
Yeah
嗯
所以就是不要去说这些东西哈
Yeah
So now you know not something you should ask
对对对
所以就是文化不一样
就是我们的文化的话
可能这是表示关心的一种方式
但是呢
可能在很多西方国家就是不要去跟人家谈论年龄啊体重啊什么之类的
这个都不太好哈
Yeah 嗯
而且我记得我上大学那会儿
我们老师还告诉我
嗯
不要随便用sexy 来形容一个女孩
这 这样吗吗
Ah ah this one
Some people will use it in movies or books
Maybe
But normal people won't really use it
Because it's a little bit rude um a little bit derogatory
That's a big word
But has a negative meaning
正常人的话
不太经常用sexy 来去形容去说
就直接去说这个女孩
I ever sexy
Something like lad you say that
If maybe you are their boyfriend or girlfriend
Or you are are really close to them
Yeah
除非你是他的男朋友或者女朋友
否则的话呢
尽量不要去说are your sexy rain
Yeah
其实c 拉
我有的时候觉得做女生真的是挺幸运的哈
因为一年到头你会发现有各种各样的节日
然后男士们就要去做各种各样的事情来show their love right 呀
嗯 对 所以呢
就是说 嗯
在过这种妇女节呀或者情人节的时候
在西方的话
男生要做什么事情来show their love or to do something to be polite to women on valentine's day
It is expected for the men to give women roses or flowers and then gifts and chocolate
So normally
Traditionally the men will give most of the gift the women
But recent
It's been more even you give guess
就是在情人节的valent valentine's day 的时候
就是说男生会送女生礼物
女生也会送男生礼物吗
It's becoming more common
Yes
But men must always buy women chocolate and flowers
That's leleast want to do um at least what you do 就一定要有鲜花巧克力
Ryeah
Ah another thing that men will is um
This is almost everywhere in the us
You hold door open for a girl or woman
When they're cominto into building or when they 're getting into a car
That is gentleman like
就是男生呢
一定要不管是在哪个地方
一定是hold the door open 或者关门
一定是为女士开门
然后把门然后拉着
然后等到女士进去之后再关上
不管是这个
呃
什么餐厅的门呢
或者是哪里的门呢
或者说甚至是车门对不对
那么男生呢
都是要去为女生开门的
然后不管你认不认识这个女生
而且呢
我还有一个问题啊
就是在西方你们那边
就是在美国
比如说那么谈恋爱的时候谁付钱呢
And the man government at least at the beginning
Maybe the first four five days
And maybe before they are officially in a relationship
The man can always papay for the date
嗯 所以呢
就是men are expected to pay
因为现在这个社会好像男女越来越平等了
Right 呀
所以很多这种传统好像就是已经开始感觉淡淡了是不是
所以我们可不可以说这种现象就是说dedear fading out
Fading out the traditions
Yeah
Fading out the traditions 就是fade
就像是那种花凋落对吧
你好
But the idea of civalry which is a very strangeword
But jevlry is the idea of men being respectful and polite to women
嗯
So all those things would be
Things that are shivearis or they need to do because of shivery
Shiveerry 就是一种歧士的侠义精神
或者说就是男士对女士的那种彬彬有礼啊
那种殷殷勤啊
体贴啊
他是来自西方中世纪的一种歧视的一种精神
Shivery
所以这个在西方国家还是非常看重的对不对
这是他们的一个tradition
Yeah 好
那今天呢
我们那关于妇女节就聊这么多
All right
I hope you learn something
And
And maybe you can all talk about what are your 妇女节et traditions
And what that looks like in china and other countries
And what it means to be a womwomin a girl and different cultures
This all right
所以呢
亲爱的听众朋友们
你们可以留言告诉我们
在妇女节的时候
你收到的最nice 的礼物是什么样子的
或者说如果你是一个男生的话
可不可以告诉我们在妇女节的时候
你有没有对你身边的妇女同志们表达过任何的善意
留言告诉我们吧
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Until next time
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