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Life lessons are full of of wisdom
Because they often have to be learned the hard way
However the hardest part about that process is realizing that sometimes not every opportunity lost forever you finally get it lonafter the fact
If possible it best learn these thing sooner rather than later one
If you want to do what you love
You have to work three times as hard as everyone else most people do not get to spend their lives doing whatever it is they love
Instead they do
What they totold
They should do
Or what their rents or
Or town
Or friends or pesusuggest that they do
Or they simply ursusunothing close to their heart at all
But if you want to do what you love
You need to see that as a privilege not an expectation
Those people are not the majority
So if that's what you truly want
You have to put in the work
Now
Two
Beneath anger is always fear
As the wise yoata says
Fear is the path to the dark side
Fear leads to anger
Anger leads to hate
Hate leads to suffering
Whenever we suffer
Especially for long periods of time at first we believe it is because of something outside of us
Something we hate
And if we make it past that emotion
We find that below
That hate is a rumble of anger
And certainly something we have held onto for far too long
But beneath all of that is always fear
A fear of loss
A fear of vulnerability
A fear of letting go
But if you can get to the point of acknowledgthe fear you
You will see its light
Hearting
Shadow compassion
And you'll be able to move forward
Three are everyday habits form our future selves what you do
Today is one more action toward who you will be tomorrow
When that action is replicated over the course of a week
You begin to scratch the surface of change
When that action is replicated over the course of a month
You begin to notice a slight difference
When that action is replicated over the course of a year or two years or five years
You may no longer recognize yourself
You would have changed in that particular way completely do not underestimate the power of each and every small habit replicated over time for good or bad your habits determine who you will ultimately become for your emotions take practice
When we think about practice
We often talk in terms of skill
You practice the piano or you practice playing hockey
But the thing is who you are emotionally also takes practice
You can practice humility
You can practice forgiveness
You can practice self awareness and humor
Just as easily as you can practice anger
Resentment
Drama and conflict
Who you are emotionally is unreflection of the things you unsciouously or unconsciously practice you were not born upset
You have merely practice that emotion far more than you have say joy five
Everyone has his or her own agenda
This is quite a clichy phrase
And is often said in a negative context
But i am using it differently
It is worth acknowledgthat at the end of the day
We all must provide for ourselves
We all have our own dreams
Goals
Aspirations
Families
Close friends and significant others
And we all want the same fundamental things
There are those you contrust of course
But the best way to keep yourself rooted and at ease is to know that agent every person has his or her own agenda
You cannot control the others
You cannot expect them to put you before themselves and trying to do so may work for a period of time
But eventually the truth will rise to the surface instead
Make it a point to address and help others move towards their own dreams as you request their help in moving towarard yours
The relationship will more smoothly move in the right direction
This way six achievement will never be as fulfilling as the journey
It is one thing to set a goal and in least their hope of others to see its achievement through it is entirely another to sacrifice your own well being and the well being of those around you for that goal and its achievement
The high at the end is never worth y emotional strain that takes place to get there
If you are not able to enjoy the journey with those around you
Then the end go will become meaningless seven working hard and laughter are not mutually exclusive building on the previous point
I never understood why people feel that laughing means not taking the matter at hand
Seriously the best ideas come through ease
The best flow happens in moments of joy
The human connection begins with laughda and a laughwhile working or solving a problem is to be open to new possibilities
Some people never learn this
They become grmpy and old
But life is about having fun and to have fun does not mean by default
That you are not getting anything done on the country
You can have fun and get more done
Than you ever thought imaginable
