It's Informed

Nobody wants to say this out loud

So women keep blaming themselves

We talk about age like it's rude

Like time doesn't touch men in real ways

But bodies change

Drive changes

Stamina changes

And silence is where women get confused

They still walk in confident

Still speak like nothing's different

Still invite you into intimacy

They haven't been honest enough to explain

And somehow I'm supposed to be patient

Lower my want, make it polite

Like wanting to be fully met

Is asking for too much at night

Let's talk about reality

Not fantasy, not pride

Libido doesn't stay the same

And pretending hurts women every time

I'm not wrong for wanting more

I'm not excessive for wanting it often

I'm not aggressive for knowing my body

Or naming when something's missing

Men collect stories, numbers, chapters

They're praised for appetite and reach

But if I want more than one partner

Suddenly I'm judged for the same needs

That math doesn't work on me

If my desire is high

I won't apologize

If I want connection and frequency

I won't shrink it

If one body doesn't match my rhythm

I don't owe loyalty to mismatch

I owe myself honesty

And choices that actually fit

Some men lose drive

Some men lose confidence

Some men lose function

And never say it out loud

That's not shame

That's biology

What causes harm

Is letting women walk in blind

Calling silence dignity

And expecting patience as payment

I wish someone had said this sooner

I would've chosen differently

I would've saved time

I would've saved heat

This isn't about disrespect

This is about disclosure

This is about women deciding

With full information

I don't hate men

I hate pretending

I don't punish age

I punish dishonesty

And I refuse to be judged

For wanting to feel alive in my body

For choosing pleasure consciously

For knowing when something isn't enough

If men can explore without labels

So can I

If men can want variety

So can I

My desire is not a flaw

My standards are not aggression

My body is not confused

It's informed

And I won't dim it

To protect anyone's ego