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I'm going to talk to you about some things that i've learned in my journey most from experience
Some of my
My heard and passing many of them
Unto al practicing that all of them i do believe are true
Life is not easy
It is not don't try to make it that way
Life's not fair
Never was it isn't known and won't ever be do not fall into the trap
The entitlement
Trap of feeling like you're in victim
You are not get over get on with
So the question never got to ask ourselves is what success is to ask
What success is to you
Is it more money as fine
I got nothing agagets money
Maybe it's to help he family
Maybe it's a happy marriage
Maybe to help others to be famous
To be spirituly sound to leave the world a little bit better place that you family continue to ask yourself that wish now your answer may change over time
And that's fine but do yourself this favor
Whatever your answer is don't choose anything that will jeopardize yourself prioritizze who you are
Who you want to be
And don't spend time with anything that antagonzes your character be brave faked the hill
But first answer that question what's my hill
So first we have to define success for ourselves
And then we have to put in the work to maintain make that daily talent tend our guard
Keep the things that are important to us in good shape
Where you are not is as important as where you are
It is just as important as where we are not as it is
Where we are like the first step that leads our identity in life is usually not i know who i am
I know who i am
That's not the first
That the first step usually i know who i am not process of elimination defining ourselves by what we are not is the first step that lead just to really know and who we are
You know the group of friends ds you hang ang out
That they really might not bring out best best in you know know they gogot p too too much
Ger gonna shady
It really aren't gna be there four una pinch
How about that bar
That we keep going into
That we always seem to have the worst hangover from or that computer screen right the computer screen that keeps giving us an excuse not to get out the house and engage with the world
And gets a real human interaction
I have about that food
That we keep you stop to taste so good going down
And makes it feel like to wrap the next week
When we feel a thargic
When we put put on way well
Those people
Those places
Those things stop giving them your time and energy just don't go there
I mean to put them down
And when you do this
When you do put it down and quit go there
You quicit given them your time
You inadvertently find yourself spending more time and in more places that are health before you
That bring you more job
Why because you just eliminated that who's the wear of the ones in the winds that will keep in you from your identity acjust me too many options
I promised that too many options will make a tiring of us all
And so we get rid the access to wasted time decrease your options
If you do this
You will have accidenvely almost innocent put in front of you
What it impimportant to i process elimination
And what who we are is hard it's tar
If yourself a break eliminate
Who you are not first they're going to find yourself
We may be instead of creating outcomes that take from us
Let's create more outcomes that pay us back
Fill us up
Keep your fire lit turn you on
For the most amount of time in your future
We try our best
We don't know we
Flow Our
This
Our architecture is a verb as well since we are the architect of our own lives
Let's study the habits
The practices
The routine es that we have lelead to and feour susucess
Our joy
Our honest
Pain
Our laughter
Our earn tears
But does i think that and give things for those things
And when we do that guess what happens
We get better at them
And we have more to die set be discerning jeuse it
Because you want it
Do it
Because you want to we're going to make mistakes
You got to own own
And then you got to make aa ment
And then you gotta move on guilt and regret kills many a man of all their time
So turn the page
Get off the ride
You are the author of the book in your life
