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Ninety nine percent of people are not willing to do what it takes to make their dreams come true
The marines have a sane airby wants to go to heaven
But nobody wants to die
The centre of bringing any dream into fruition is self discipline
You know something as simple as food and eating is not about your
Your body as much as it is about your mind
It's getting command of your mind to be able to choose actions that are in your own best interest
Every day we are choosing that's not in our own best interest
So the world is attacking you in the world once to fight you in the world's trying to hold you down
So you can kick yourself in the balls
So you will stop yourself from getting what you dream
And i think the word discipline has kind of gotten a bad name
We think about it in terms of punishment
I'm am not talking about discipline in that way
I'm talking about discipline in the sense that you
You four go immediate pleasure for the exchange of long term self respect
I believe that self discipline is the definition of self love
That you say that you love yourself
That means that you have behavior towards yourself
That is loving
Self discipline is the center of all material success
You cannot win the war against the world
If you can't win the war against your own mind
Self love is when you say yyself man look i know you and that girl got a real connection
I know your fab
But does your girl 's cousin
So i love you too much to let you do that
It's like you say to yourself a man look i know you want to eat that pizza
And you''ll be really good
You know
But i can't let you eat at man
Because if you eat at pizza you can feel like you know
And i just i love you too much to let you eat that self love is aid
Look i know you got aa test go on monday
You know and i know you really want to go out with your friends is saturday night
You want to go out
But if you fail had teyou
You not don't feel good about yourself
You know i just i love you too much to let you go out
Tonight
Self discipline is self love
If you want to be happy
You have to love yourself
Which means you have to discipline your behavior
The road to sustained happiness is through disciplining your behavior
We tend to base ourself a scheme on what other people think
And that's not really self a steam
Self a steam is possible to be
How we feel about ourselves
And i was the same how dangerous
It is to allow other people to determine how you're gona feel about you
And
And it's kind of like looking into a broken mirror
You're going to look into a broken mirror
And then change your faith to try to look good in this definile busted broken mirror
And it just other people's opinions
It's a really sure way to determine how we feel about ourselves
It no matter whose fault is that
Something is broken
If it's your responsibility to fix it for example is
Is not somebody's fault
If their father was an abusive alcohol c
But it's for dam sure their responsibility ility to figure out
How they going to deal with those traumas
And try to make a life out of it's not your fault
If you're partner cheated and ruin your marriage
But it is for deensure your responsibility to figure out
How to take that pain and how to overcome that
And build a happy life for yourself
Fault and responsibility do not go together sucks
But they don't want something is somebody's fall
We want them to suffer
We want them punish
We want them to to pay
And wanted to be their responsibility to fix it
But has that's not how it works
Especially wish your heart
Your heart
Your life
Your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone
As long as we're point in the finger and and stuck in who's fault
Something is where jammed and trap into victimo
When you're in victimo
Youare stuck in suffering the road to power is in taking responsibility
Your heart
Your life
Your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone
You can make a person smile
You can make a person feel good
You can make a person laugh
But whether or not a person is happy
Is deeply and totally and uterly out of your control the prerequite for spending time with any person is that they nourish and inspire you
They eat your flame
Look at your last five text messages
Odos people feeding your flames or dowsing your five
Put you phone down for just a second and look around
Look to the people around are
Are wn en logs on your fire or they pison on it
I want my life
I want my work
My family
I wanted to mean something
And it's like
It has if
If you're not making someone else's life better than you're wasting in your time
The separation of talent and skill is one of the
The
The atest misunderstood concepts for people
People who trying to excel
Who have dreams they want to do thing
Talent you have naturally skill is only developed by hours and hours and hours of beaten on your craft
You
You don't try to build a wall
You don't set out to build a wall
You don't say i'm want people
People d the biggest bad as greatest wwall that's ever been built
You don't start there
You say i'm going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be lid
There will not be one brak on the face of the earth
This would be lay better
And then this brick
And i'm going to lay in this next time minutes
And you do that every single day as soon you have a wand
I think psychologically the advantage ge that that gives me over over a lot of people
That i on have been in competition with the different situations is it's difficult to take the first step
When you look how big
Because that the task is the definition of who i am is very clear to me
And it also redefines who i wanna be in that i know for fact that i'm stronger than ii thought i was
You know you can't help it ask yourself
The question what would i do
If i was in muhaba ali
Issues i'm motivated by fear
I hate being sare to do something
And i think what developed in my
In my early date was the the attitude that i started attacking daames that i was scared of why were you scared in your bed
The night before why did you what do you need that fear for just don't go
Why are you scared in your bed
Sixteen hours before you jump
Why are you scared in the car
Why could you not enjoy breakfast
Fear is fear of what you're nowhere even near the airplane
Everything up to the stepping out
There's actually no reason to be scared
It only just ruins your day
You
You have that joomand
Then
Then have moment all of a sudden where you should be terrified
Is the most polistiful experience of your life
And god plays the best things in life on the other side of terror
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