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everyonegradidtoreallygetintoitandtidyupyourlifealittlebityeh
nowiknowwhatyoumightbethinkingahanotheroneoftheseorganization
goorulestellingmewhattodo
buttrustmeonthisonetaylormorsnewbook
tidyupyourlife
itsdifferent
wereadeepdiveintohisinsights
ok
anditsnotjustaboutlikeshovingallyourclotterintoaclosets
youcantseeitright
itsactuallyabouthoworganizingyourphysicalspacescan
canhelpclearyourmind
andactuallyhonestlymakeroomforamorefulfillinglife
ilovethatlikecandeepcleanforyourwholeexistence
yes
sowhatifindfascinatingisthattyleractuallystumbledontothiswholemindbodyconnectionkindofbyaccidentorreallyyeah
hetellsthisgreatstoryinthebooks
soapictureofthis
hesinhisbedroom
umtryingtolikereorganizeslidingfurniturearoundonthesespeechtollhighsastuffeverywheretotaldisasterrate
yeah
andofcourse
hiswifeemilywalksinatthatexactmoment
iticanjustimagine
youknowthatfeelingwhenyoustartaproject
thinkingyouregoingtomakethingsbetter
andjustjustexlolodestoallyally
andfortylerthisgreatbedroom
flipasitcalls
itwasatotalwakeupcall
okay
herealizedthechaosinhisbedroom
itwasAAmirrorfortheclutterinhismindinterestingevenisemotionalstate
oh okay
soitsdeeperthanjustlikehavingacleanhouse
muchdeeperitsaboutrecognizingthatourphysicalenvironment
yeah
itreallycanimpacthowwethinkandfeel
thinkaboutithaveyouevernoticedhowaclutteredroomcanmakeyoufeelstressedoranxious
whatdoesyourclutttersayaboutyouokaythatsalittletoorealrighttimetolookaroundmyapartmentwithfresheyes
buthowdoyouevenbegintotackallthatcluttterbothlikephysicalandmental
wheredoweevenstartwell
tayloractuallyhadasimilarkindtobreakdownmoment
hewaswalkingtoworkoneday
justjusttotallyoverwhelmedwithworkparenteditjustlifegengeneral
knowknowwaslikehehitawall
andthatswhenhedecided
heneededtodecluluternotjusthisapartment
buthiswholelife
wow
soitslikeadominanteffect
yeahoneareaofyourliespillsintotheothersprecisely
andyouknowtylerreallyemphasizesthispointthatdecluttertering
itsnotjustlikeaonetimepergeitsanongoingprocess
itsaboutconstantlyevaluatingwhatyouneed
whatservesyouandlettinggo
whatsweiingyoudownumh
heeventalksaboutmakingadeclutteringcalendartokind
kindstay
staytrtrwawaacalendarfordeclutteringisntthatabitmuch
itmightsoundintense
butthinkthinkaboutthisway
lifeisconstantlythrowingnewthingsatussonewresponsibbabababilities
newabilities
newstuffrightsobyregularlyassessingwhatweneedandwhatservesus
wecanpreventthatoverwhelmingbuildupofcluttter
yeah
bothphysicalandmentalokayimstartingtoseethevalueinthatsohowdoesthisdeclutteringprocessactuallywork
dowejustliketossedeverythingoutmuricondostyle
well
tylerwasdefinitelyinspiredbythewholelikesparkjoyconcept
buthekindoftakesitastepfurtherwithhisideaofjust
justenough
okay
justenough
itsnotaboutminimalism
itsaboutfindingthatsweetspotofhavingwhatyoutrulyneedandappreciatewithouttheexcessbaggage
soitsnot
notaboutdeprivingyourself
itsmoreaboutbeingintentionalaboutwhatyousurroundyourselfwiththatsithegivesthisgreatexampleofhisoverstuffcloset
youknowherealized
hehadway
toomanyclothes
especiallyblueplaatshirts
toomanybluepllashirts
t
sohecreatedacapsulewarder
sohecreatedacollectionofessentialpieces
heactuallylovedinwar
butwhataboutthoseofus
whoarenotfashionforward
likeimprettytouchedtomycoffeys
sweapantscollectiondoesjustenououappapplyeveryeverythingablutelythekeyisthatjustenoughisdeeplypersonalokay
itappliestoyourpossessions
yourcommitments
evenyourlivingspace
taylerandytheyvelivedinthesamenewyorkcityapartmentforyearswowevenwithtwokids
soitsaboutchallenging
becausearecontentwithwhattheyhaveyeah
andtheyprioritizemakingthemostofit
soitsaboutchallengingthatconstantorgetoupgrade
togetthebiggerhouse
thefansofyourcar
thenewestgadget
itsaboutbreakingfreefromthathermitcrabmentalityalwayslookingforabiggershell
yeahsoimcuriouswhatsyourversionofjustenough
whatcanyouletgooftocreatemorespace
physicallyandmentallyforwhattrulymatters
wow
thatsapowerfulquestionmakesyouthinkaboutwhatyoureholdingontoandwhybutokayttingttingriateststuffisonlypartoftheequationright
howdoweactuallycreatethatsenseoforderandintentionalityinourlives
thatswheretylersconceptofroutinescomesinhesabigbelieverincreatingrhyththatbringstructureturejoytoeverydaylife
soweretalkaboutmorethanjustlikeamorningroutineorbdtimeroutine
yeah
itsaboutfindingthoselittleritualsthataddmeaningandstabilitytoyourdayforexample
hesharesthisreallyheartwarmingstoryabouthowhewalkstwoandfromschoolwithhisdaughterseverydayrayinorshine
theypassthesametothesamedogs
thesamesites
hecallsittheirlittlesliceofcomfortingroutineessweet
itsthosesmallconsistentmomentsthatcanmakeabigdifferenceespeciallyinaworld
thatfeelsincreasingly
chaoticabsolutely
anditsnotaboutaboutrigidscheduleshereyeah
itsmoreaboutfindingaflowtelksforyou
heeventalksaboutdogschedumentstotryoutnewroutinesandseehowtheyfit
exactlyitsaboutbeingflexibleandfindingwhatworksforyou
notwhatsomeexperttellsyoutodo
sowhataresomeotherexamplesofthesejoybringingroutines
welltyilersabigfooty
soheandhisfamilyhavethisthingcalledfood
foodfrifridayfooddayfridaygirlsgettochooseaspecialtredeafteralongweekofschool
sometimesitstakeout
sometimesitsahomecookedfeast
itsoundsamazingitsaboutcreatingaslittlepocketsofdelighttolookforwardtoyeah
anditseemslikeagreatwaytoconnectasafamilytoobutletsbehonestroutinescanbehardtosticktosothisweekkidstotally
whataboutthosedays
wheneverythingjustfeelslikeachaoticmess
oh
tllydoesntsugarcodeit
heeventalksaboutthegreatbdtimeshuffleashecallsit
youknowtheendlessbackandforthofgettingkidsreadyforbedalltheforgottenpyjamanasagrouprequestforonemorestory
exactly
buttayloremphasizesthatroutinesareaboutservingyou
notcontrollingyouright
sowhentheirbedtimeroutinewasanightlybattle
heandemilyrevamtitokay
nowtheyhaveamorestructuredplandinner
bathtime
brushingteeth
familytimethanbad
soitsaboutaadaptingandfindingwhatworks
evenifittakesfewtriice
thatsitandthisactuallytiesintoanotherimportantconcept
hetalksaboutjoyplottingjoy
plottingokayimintriguedtellmemore
soeverysundaytylertakesafewminutestoactuallymapoutmomentsofjoy
hecanlookforwardtointhecomingweek
umcouldbesomethingsmalllikeacupofcoffeeinhisfavoritemugorsomethingbiggerlikeadatenightwithemily
lookslikeproactivelyschedulinghappinessinhereweek
exactlyitsaboutbeing
intentionalaboutcreatingthislittlesparksofjoy
anditsthebusyssoflife
ilovethatidea
itssoeasytogetcaughtupinthetodolistandforgettomaketimeforthethingsthattrulyblightusup
andthatsexactlywhattheupyourlifeisallaboutitsaboutcreatingalifethatfeelsmanageableandjoyful
evenwhenlifefirstyoucurvecallsandspeakingacurveballs
taylordoesntshyawayfromtalkingaboutthosetoughtimes
thoseseasons
whenyourejusttryingtosurvivivelittleonethrive
hecallsthemsurthribalseasons
thatsperiodwhenyourefacingchallenges
andyouresearchingforwaystonotjustgetthroughthem
buttoactuallygrowfromthem
okay
hesharessomeprettyincrediblestoriesfromhisownlifethatillustratethislikehisfirstyearteachinginaruralktuckyschool
oyeahgetthisoneofhisstudendendodopopoedinthemiddleoftheclassroomduringaholidayparty
ohno
thatsawfulitshilariousaneco
butitspeakstothoseunexpectedtesseslifethurwsourway
andthentherewashissummerteachingjobinbulgaria
hewentinwiththesevisionsofthisgrandadventureofhislugagegotlost
buthefeltreallyisolatedhisteachachscheduduendedupbeingonlyonlyhouraday
iknowthebulgarianmisssadventureashecallsit
butwhatsremarkableashedidntletitdefeathim
yeah
heturneditintoasummerofreadingreflectionandpersonalgrowth
ilovethat
andhewentontowinteacheroftheyearbackcancontecyouthefollowingyear
itsaboutfindingthoseglimersofhopeinopportunity
eveninthemiddstofchaosanddisappointment
yes
andyouknowhedoesntjusttalkthetalk
hewalksthewalk
hismomwasthroughasimilarexperiving
whenshewashelpinghisgrandparentstransitionintoassistedliving
right
itwasareallydifficultandemotionallyrainingtimeforher
butshebrokedownthoseoverwhelmingtasksintosmallersteps
foundwaystocope
andultimatelyshegrewfromtheexperiencesosurthrivalisaboutacknowledgingthedifficultythoseseasonswithoutlettingthemdefinance
exactly
itsaboutfindingwaystonavigatethosechallengestoleanonoursupportsystemsandtoseekoutmomentsofjoy
evenwhenthingsfeelreallybleakandjoyplottingcanbeespeciallyhelpful
duringthosetoughtimes
oh yeah
thoselittlesparksofhappinesscanmakeabigdifferencehugedifference
itsaboutshiftingourfocusfromwhatswrongtowharightfromwhatwelacktowhatwecanbegratefulforitsoundslikeareallypowerfultoolforreframingourperspectiveandfindingresilienceinthefaceofdiversitytotallyandtaylorremindsus
wedonthavetogothroughthesetoughtimesalone
hereallystressestheimportanceofsharing
theloadwheitswithpartners
families
friends
ourcommunities
soitsaboutrecognizing
thatwerenotmeanttodoitallourselvesright
hetalksabouthowheandemilyhavehadtohavesomeprettyhonest
sometimesawkwardconversations
aboutdividinguphouseholdworkinresponsibilities
andtheyrealizties
andtheyrealizeditsnotalwaysaboutaperfectfifty
fiftysplit
HIcanrelatetothatinmyhouse
itfeelslikeaconstantnegotiation
umhdodoyoufindthatthatbalancewithoutresenment
builbuilt
tayleremphasizestheimportanceofopencommunication
是的
heandemilyhavelearnedtobeupfront
abouttheirstrength
theirpreferences
andalsotheirlimitationsokay
andtheyvelearnedtoletgooftheneedtodoeverythingperfectly
soitsabouthavingthosesometimesawkwardbutnecessaryconversation
yeah
aboutwhodoeswhat
whyexactly
anditsaboutbeingwillingtooutsourceandeliminatetasksorouttogethertoreducestressandcreatemoretimeforwhatmatters
andtheycouldlookdifferentforeveryoneright
somepeoplemighthirecleanerordoawwardwell
othersmightsimplifytheirmealplanningorcutbackoncommitments
itsaboutfindingwhatworksforyouandyouruniquecircumstances
yeah
taylorevensharesthisfunnystoryabouthismom
whousesanapptoremindher
whentowaterherplants
thatsasomejustlittlewaystostreamlineourlive
yeah
freeupmentalbandwp
ahsometimesthebestwaytostopdoingalltheworkistosimplystopdoingsomethataltogether
嗯
hetalksabouthiscoteachherkierawhoeliminatedherthreehourcommutebyfindingajobclosertohome
andhissisteramandawhodecidednottobuyahouse
becauseshedidntwanttheaddedresponsibilityofhomeownership
itsrecognizzourlimitationsandandkingchoicesthatalignwithourvaluesandpriorities
evenifthosechoicesgoagainstthosesocietalnormsorexpectationsrightandtyleremphasizesthatcreatingatidyandfulfillinglife
evenaboutsomuch
morethanjustorganizingourphysicalspaces
itisitsaboutdeclatteringourminds
simplifyingourschedulesandmakingtimeforthethingsthattrulymatter
soitsaholisticapproachtocreatingalife
thatfeelsbothmanageableandmeaningful
exactly
andhedoesntjustleaveuswiththesebigpicturetipsforalsoshresahnofpracticaltipsfortightingupdifferentareasofourlives
ok
iamreadyforthemitigreedydetailsalright
whataresomeofhistoptips
wellhesabigadvocateforwhathecallstenminutesteddybustsitsallaboutfocusingonsmallmanageableareastoavoidfeelingoverwhelmediactuallytriedthistheotherdayanditsamazing
howmuchyoucanaccomplishinjusttenminutes
itackledmyjungtur
itsnolongerablackholeofrandomssthatsgreat
itsreallygreatwaytobuildmomentumandcreateasenseofaccomplishmentwithoutspendinghourscleaning
嗯 对对 okay
whatelsehealsorecommendsthecatchallbintrick
okay
ineedtohearaboutthis
whatisthecatchallbintricksobasically
itsjusthavingadesignatedbinorbasket
whereyoucanquicklytosscluttterattheendoftheday
thenyoucangobackandsortedoutlaterwhenyouhavemoretimegenius
itslikeatemporaryholdingzoneforallthoserandomthingsthatinascatteredaroundthehouse
rightandthenforthoseofuswithkidsandalltheirtoystylers
abigfanoftoyrotation
oh yes
theideaistokeeponlyalimitednumberoftoysoutatatime
andthenswitchchthemout
regularlyhelpskeepkidsengagedandprevenenttheirplacespacesfrombecomingoverwhelmingsuchasmartidea
im
imconstantlytrippingovertoysinmyhouse
imdefinitelygoingtotrythatonwhataboutthekitchen
anytipsforthekitchen
oh yeah
hesgotsomegreatonesforthekitchen
herecommendskitchenzzingwhichisisbasicdividingyourkitchenintodifferentphzonebasedonfunction
soyouhaveyourpripzone
yourcookingzone
yourcleanupzone
exactly
anditsallaboutmakingthekitchenassessmorestreamlinethanefficient
heevensuggesthavingadedicatedkidszoneinthekitchen
holdonwhatisakidszoneinthekitchen
itsbasicallyinareawherekidscanaccesssnacksanddrinks
independentlywithouthavingtoaskforpermissioneverytime
soitslikeaselfservesnackbarforkids
yeah
genius
icanalreadyseehowthatwouldsavemealotofhassleitsallaboutcreatingflowandefficiencyinyourkitchen
yeah
andtiylersfullofcleverstoredsolutionstooyeah
likemagneticbasketsonthefridge
stackableshelvesonthecounterclearbensusedasjrawsheevenhasacoolpulloutjwunderssookay
ineedseepicpictures
hesoundslikeamaasterofmaxizingspace
heis
andwhatiloveisthatheemphasizesinvolvingkidsinthekitchen
ahitsoitsnotjustaboutkeepingthekitchentidyitsaboutmakingitasharedfamilyspace
thatsit
heandemilygraduallyincludedtheirdaughtersinthewholemealtimeroutinefrommealplanningtocleanupitsaboutteachingthemlifeskillsandfosteringasenseofresponsibility
andit
itjustmakesthekitchenfeelmorewelcomingenjoyful
right
andbeforehemoveonfromthekitchen
taylersharesthishilariousstoryabouthisappearanceanceongoodmorning
americsoihavetodothis
soheemilyspenthourstidinguptheirafect
yeah
thecamerasrightmakingitlookperfectyek
andthenthefilmcrewactuallytlyknockedashelfoffthewall
oh
notalkaboutatidyupfailitsagoodreminder
thatlifeisaseeandunpredictable
andthatsokay
wedonthavetostriveforperfection
soitsnotabouthavingaperfectlystayedhome
itsabouthavingahomethatfunctionswellforyourfamily
exactlyanyhighlights
theimportanceofactuallydistinguishingbetweenorganizingtidyingandcleaning
okay
andherecommendstacklingtheminthatorder
sofirstyouorganizeedyoudecidecidewherethingsbelongandhowtobecontainedyep
thenyoutidy
youputthingsbackintheirdesignatedspotsgotit
andfinallyyouclean
youremovethedirtingrame
makesthemtobreakdemaprocessinamanageablestep
rightwokenbackeveryonereadyformoretidyupyourlifewisdom
oh yeah
inpartone
wetalkedaboutthosekindofbigpictureideaslikedeclatteringandroutine
nowweregoingtogetintothenedtygreity
roombyroomroomloveit
sothefirstupbebedamersitsfunny
youknowbedroomsaresupposedtobeliketheseheroomsof
ofaceand
andrice
buttheyoftenbecomedumpinggroundsforeverythingtothtosodudompapers
oh
tellmeaboutit
itslikemykidshaveasixsensefordroppingthingsinthemostinconvenientspotsunderthebedbehindthedresser
iknowtyleractuallysharesthishilrystoryaboutwhathecallsthegreathammeringincident
thegreathammeringincident
okay
sohisyoungestdaughterwascryingatnight
oh
keepingtheneighbboursup
anditturnedintothiswholesleepdeprivedhammeringbattlewiththeywerehammeringonthewallsateachother
yes
betweentylerintheneighbor
ohmygod
itsoundscrazy
butintheend
theyfoundoutthesolutionwasjustmovingthehammerortotheothersideoftheroom
no wow
sometimesthosesimplestsolutionsarethehardesttosee
whenyouresleepdeprivedinexhaustedright
butitjusthighlights
howevensmallchangescanmakeabigdifferenceinyouroverallwellbeinginsantity
forsure
andyouknowtilersnotafraidtogetrealaboutthechallengesofkeepingbedroommstidyespeciallywithkids
hetalksabouthowtheyveembracetriplebuunkbeds
andallsortsofcleverstorgesolutionsastheirfamilyhasgrownsoaboutmaximizspspaceanyminizingclulitteratthesametime
absolutelyhesaysbedroomsarelikecluluttermagnets
youknownightstandsunderthebedstoragedresserjorws
yeah
theyalljustseemtoattractstufftrue
andheevenadmitsthathesguiltyofittooyeahtossingthingsinthebasketsenjorgetogetthematiide
untilsomeoneneedstofindsomethingwhichitotallyyoutoowellheresthisgreattap
andhesaysthatchoosingfurniturewithlesshiddenstoragecanactuallyhelpyoubemoremindfulaboutwhatyoukeepinteresting
heevenbuiltabedsidetableoutofanoldsuitcasereallynodrawsjustaflatsurface
ilovethatidea
itforcesyoutobereallyintentional
aboutwhatyoukeepwithinreachexexactlywhataboutkidsdstheirsurface
kidsdslikeemotionallyattachedtoeverybrokentoyandeverylittlescrapapaper
theyfindhowdoyoudealourtylertalksaboutthistoohesaysitsthisconstantbalancebetweenencouragingkidstoletgo
thingsyeahandrespectingthosesentimentalattachments
theyhavehesuggestsstartingsmallok
maybewithsomeoldpyjamas
andthenkindofworkingyourwayuptobiggerpurchase
sotheyteaching
decisionmakingskills
lsexactlyandilovethis
heandemilycreatedthesejoyshelvesintheirdaughters
wardrobejoyshelves
wheretheycankeepthosemosttreasureditems
itsspecialspacetotallyofflimitstoparents
thatssosweet
ibetthathelpswiththoselike
butineeditmeltbounce
sototallyandspespeakingofdesignatedareas
tyylortalksaboutzoninginbedroomstooyes
creatingdistinctareasforsleepinggettingready
maybeareadingluck
ithelpsyouthinkaboutthespaceintermsofhowyouactuallyuseit
soeveniftheroomisntlikepictureperfect
itfunctionsinawaythatmakessenseforyouinyourfamilythatsitandspeakingofspacethatarentalwayspictureperfect
letsmoveontothebathroom
oh
thebestatthem
thesideofmanyafamilymeltdowninmyhouse
righttylerdoesntsugarcodeit
hecalledsharingonesmallbathroomwithhisfamilyafive
aconstantbattle
hedescribesitlikethistinytwofeetbythreefeetofstandingspaces
nolearningcloset
nodraws
buthesayseventhesmallestspacecanbeorganizedandfunctionalsotrue
andheemphasizesthatorganizationiskey
nomatterwhatsizerspacesitsaboutdecluttertering
youknowthoseexcess
hazestheunusedtwiter
thetrees
allthatrandomstuffthatendsupinourbathrooms
youknowthosehotelsamplesweallhoard
butdoyoureallyneedfifteentinybottlesofshampooprobablynotitsaboutbeinghonestaboutwhatyouactuallyuseinneed
oncethatclutterisgone
youcancreatezonesrightsoeverythingwithanarmsreachforyourmorningroutineforexamplemakesgettingreadyawholeoutsmoother
andibetitmakescleaningeasiertoo
oh
forsure
entylordoesntneglectthatpart
hesuggestslikeleavingcheekypostednotesforguestslikewhatlikestopssmnewbigthatsaareisiloveitasalittlepersonalitytothisspaceright
andheendsthewholebathroomchapterbysayingitsmorethanjustafunctionalspace
youknowitsareflectionofhowwelive
wherewestartandendourdays
wherewetakecareofourselvesinourfamilies
thatsabeautifulwaytolookatitrightmakesyouwanttoinvedustlelittlemoretimeandenergyinmakingitaspacetotrulybringsyoujoy
forsure
okaynowfortheheart
thehomekitchenuhthekitchenplace
wherewegather
wecook
wecreatememoriesandoftencreatemassivemasses
tyleractuallytakesusbacktowhenhisoldestdaughtermabelwasababy
yeah
theirkitchenwasthiscozespaceperfectfortooyeah
butoncemablestartedeatingsolidsthekitchenfeltlikeitwasshrinking
oh yeah
icouldrelatetothat
对的 对的
itsamazing
howquicklyhowtinyhumancantakeoverawholeroom
itstrueanemilycameupwiththisbrilliantideathatactuallymovedtheirdiningtableintothelivingroom
nofreedupsomuchspaceinthekitchen
itsaboutthinkingoutsidetheboxrightandtyleremphasizesthatorganizingisntjustaboutmovingfurniturearound
itsaboutreallyunderstandingwhatyouactuallyneedanduseondailyilybasisandemilyeempedeverysinglecabingeanddraw
ohandrealizetheyhadtwomaincategories
everydayitemsandthings
theyearlyevertouchedsoaboutbeinghonestwithyourselfaboutwhatsjusttakingavaluablespace
exactlyhesallaboutdeclateringespeciallyinthekitchen
letgoofthosejustincaseitemsaccesstowellscatheraldishes
toomanycoffeemugs
waityoure
tollingmetheyridofcoffeemugs
thatswhereidrowaline
hedoesmaanexceptionforsentimentalitems
thoughhetalksabouthismomscollectionofcookie
cutokayandemilys
grandmotherschina
theydisplaythemonfloatingshelvesandusethemforplushthatsagreatidea
itsaboutfindingthatbalancebetweenfunctionalityandpreservingthosespecialmemoriesokay
soyoumentioneddeclutteringwhatelsewhataresomeofhisotherbigkitchentips
youknowwhatsagamechangerforkitchenorganization
kitchenzoningok
refreshmymemory
whatskitchenzzingallabout
soitsaboutororanizingyourkitchenenbycaggorystoringitems
wheretheyreactuallyusedmostoftengotitsolikekeepingyourbakingsuppliesnearyourmixingballsinyourpottonenpandneartheste
exactly
tylertalksaboutthefivezones
theycreatedintheirkitchenokay
prepcooking
cleanup
puttingawayandadedicatedkidszonewaitakidszoneinthekitchen
对的 对对
tellmemoreaboutthis
soitsbasicallyinareawherekidscanaccesssnacksanddrinks
independentlywell
thatsgreatthink
lowshellsstockedwithhealthyoptions
theycanreachthemselvesgeniusmykidsareconstantlyaskingforsnacks
sothiswouldsaymesomuchtimeofenergyplusitgivesthemthatlittlesenseofindependence
exactlyitsallaboutcreatingthatflowandefficiencyinyourkitchen
andtigherstfullofcleverstowarardsolutionstoolikemagneticbasketsonthefridge
magnableshelvesinthecounterclearbins
uusesdrawhe
heevenhasthiscoolpulloutdrawunderssink
okay
anydissigpicturesofthis
heseemslikeamasterofmaximizingspace
heis
andwhatiloveisthatheemphasizesgettingkidsinvolvedinthekitchentooyeah
soitsnotabout
aboutkeeingittidyitsaboutmakingitasharedfamilyspace
absolutely
heandemilytheygraduallyincludedtheirdaughtersinthewholemealtimeroutinefrommealplanningtocleanupitsaboutteachingthemlifeskillsandfosteringthatsenseofresponsibility
andahsomakesthekitchenenfeelmorewelcomingenjoyfulforsure
okay
andbeforewemoveonfromthekitchentylersharesthishilariousstoryabouthisappearanceongoodmorningamerica
nowihavetohearthisokay
soheandemilyspenthourstidyinguptheirapartment
yeah
youknowforthecamerasmakingitlookperfect
okay
andthenthefilmcrewaccidentallynotashelfoffthewall
oh
notalkaboutatidyofthewall
iknowitsagoodreminder
thatlifeismessyandunpredictable
andthatsokay
wedonthavetostriveforperfection
soitsnotabouthavingaperfectlystagedhome
butabouthavingahomethatfunctionswellforyourfamilyandforyourlife
exactly
andheactuallyhighlightstheimportanceofdistinguishingbetweenorganizingtidingandcleananokay
andherecommendstacklingtheminthatorder
sofirstyouorganizeze
youdecidewillthingsbelongandhowllbecontained
thenyoutidy
youputthingsbackintheirdesignatedspots
andfinallyyouclean
youremovethedirtongrame
yeah
makesensebreaksdowntheprocess
anddomuchmoremanageablestepsexactlyokay
wevetalkedaboutbedroomsandbaththroomsinkitchens
whataboutthoseothersharedspaceslikelivingrooms
diningrooms
playroom
thosethosespacesthatreallyneedevolveasareliveschangechanfisherandtiler
talksabouthowtheirownapartmentactuallytransformed
oncetheyhadkidsright
thereadingbecameanursery
theplayroomshiftedthelivingroombecamethismultipurposespaceforeverythingfromfamilymovienightstoyogasessions
itsaboutembracingthefludityoflifeandadaptingourspaces
accordingly
soitsnotaboutcreatingamuseumlikehome
butratheraspacethatreflectshowyouactuallylive
exactly
andyouknow
eventhoughtheyhaveamuchlargerlivingareanowintheirpencisylvaniacottage
ahtheyvestillbeenreallyintentionalaboutcreatingzones
withinthespacetheyvedesignatedareasfordining
relaxing
playing
yes
andtheyactuallyskipthecoffeetabletoleavemoreroomfortheirdaughterstoplaypracticalandplayful
iloveitright
andtaylorsharesomegreattipsforstreamliningmornings
toolikecreatingadesignatedentrywayarea
oh yeah
withshootrays
coathooks
sendadropzoneforkeysandthings
likethat
itsallaboutsettingyourselfupforsuccessfromthemoment
youstepoutthedoor
andhesabigfanofthatcatchallbintrickforthelivingroom
tooreally
heusesanicebaskettojustgatherupalltherandomitemsthataccumulateright
andthenputthemback
wheretheybelongattheendoftheday
solikeavisualremindertoputthingsaway
anditlooksalottidierthanjustleaveandstillscatteredaround
exactly
andforplayrooms
youknowherecommendstoyroitation
ofcourseseemslikearecrecurringthemethroughoutthebook
rightbutitreallymakessenseitdoes
itkeepsthingsfreshandpreventstoyoverload
butattheendofthedayandtylerremindsus
thatnomatterhoworganizedwearelifewithkidsismessy
oh yeah
therearediningtable
oftendoublesasnorthstationofficer
butheslearnedtokindofembracetheKO
embracethechas
itsaboutlettinggoofthatneedforperfectionandfindingsolutions
thatworkedforyouruniquefamilyabsolutelyokay
sowevecoveredalotofground
herewehavefrombedroomstobathrooms
tokitchens
tolivingspaces
whattogoodstuffalrightwearebackforthefinalpartofourdeepdiveintotidyupyourlife
yeswevecoveredsomanyamazingpracticaltips
yeah
buttaylormoredoesntstopthereno
hereallygetsintotheheartofwhatitmeanstocreateahomeandalife
thatfeelstrulyfulfilling
yesforyouinyourfamily
ilovethispartofthebook
meyeah
andhewrapsupthebookwiththisbeautifulreflectiononparentingatwhathecallsthemiddlephathatthatinbetweenspacedaughtersaregettingolder
theyregettingmoreindependent
yeah
buttheystillcravethosemomentsofconnectionofplayfulness
andhedescribesthesescenesofbeingonthefloorwithhisdaughters
buildingtowersandcitiesoutofblocksinfrontoftheirtriplebunkbeed
ahilovethat
itjustsoundssodedelacitdoes
andyouknowhecomparesittoametaphorforlife
sometimeswethinkthatremovingonecrucialelementwillmakeeverythingcrumble
rightbutwhatifitactuallycreatespaceforsomethingnewandevenbettertoemergeitskindofabeautifulwaytolookatitright
soitsaboutlettinggoofthatneedforcontrol
embracingtheunexpectedyeahandopentothepossiilityilityitsicanseehowthattiintothiswhowhoconcepcepttitiingupyourlifeyeah
itsnotjustaboutdeclutteringyourphysicalstuff
yededeclutteringyourmindsetiswelldeclutteringyourmind
declutteringyourexpectationsyeah
andhealsoremindsusthatplaayisntjustforkids
itsforaddontitstooitisitsaboutfindingthosemomentsofpurejoyareconnectingwithourinnerchild
thinkaboutwhatbringsyouthatsenseofplayfulness
thatfeelingofbeingfullypresentandengagedinwhateveryouredoingyeah
itssoeasytogetcaughtupintheseriousnessofadultingthatweforgettohavefun
andinknowtyleralsotalksaboutthisideaofadult没有whichreallyresonatedwithme
yeah
becausewereconstantlybombbardedwithmessagesgoyeah
tellingusweneedmoremoremorerightbiggergerbettermore
buttylerchallengesustoreallyredefinewhatenoughmeansforusindividuallyyes
itsnotaboutdeprivationcomaboutrecognizingthetruecontentmentcomesfromapprecizwhatwealreadyhavewhatitsabout
alreadysoitsaboutshiftingourfocusfromwhatwelacktowhatwehaveyesfromwantingmoretobeinggratefulforwhatisyesandalreadymoreintoliketititingupourlivesinabroadersenserightnitsaboutlettinggoofthethingsthatnolongerservicethecommitmentstodrainourenergyyeah
thebeliefthatholdusback
thestuffthatwaasesusdown
itsaboutcreatingthatspaceforwhattrulymattersourrelationshipsarepassions
yeah
thosemomentsofsimplejoyanditsanongoingprocess
rightwhatfeelslikeenoughtodayitsevolveasourliveschangedinourprioritiesshiftabsolutelyaboutbeingflexible
adaptableandwilillingtokindofjustjustcourseseneededforsure
andyouknowialsoreallyappreciatedtaylersacknoknoleledgmentoftheimportofcommunityoyeahhededicateswhowhochachaterterdoestoexpressinggratitudeforthepeopleinhislife
herecognizesthathewouldntbewhereheistheyeahoutoutsuppsupporthis
histeerssmenorfrienfriensfamilyevenstrangers
ershaveinspiredhimalongtheway
itsagoodremindernnoneus
usalaloneinjchaneyofcreatingameaningfullife
andhealsoreallyhighlightsthepowerofsharingourstories
yes
sharingourstruggle
sharingourtriumph
becausetheressomethingsopowerfulaboutrealizingthatotherpeoplearegoingthroughsimilarthingsthatwereallinthistogether
heevensharesthisgreatstoryabouthowthissimplecommentfromafriendledhimtochangehisinstagramhandletotidydad
okaywhichtotallychangehisplatformandreach
wowanditsatestimatetothepowerofconnection
andthoseunexpectedwaysourlivescanintersectandinfluenceeachothermakesyouthinkaboutallthoseseeminglysmallinteractionrightthathaveshapedyourownpathinsomewaytotallyokayiwanttogobacktosomethingthattylermentionedatthebeginningofthebook
okayourpersonalmessthresholdooyesyesthatkindofinvisibleline
weallhavethatpoint
wherethingsstartedtofeelreallyoverwhelminginchaoticthattippingpointexactly
andheencourages
gestoreallytolinineourtolereranceformassandindifferentareasofourlivesright
andyouknowitsdifferentforeveryoneforsure
sohesuggestkindofratingyourselfonascaleofonetotenokayindifferentcategories
yourphysicalspace
yourworkhaitsitssocisocilifeyourmentalandemotionalstate
um
wheredoyoustarttofeelstressed
scatteredoutofcontrol
yeah
thatsgreatadvice
ilovethat
andithinkknowingyourownmessthresholdissuchavaluabletoolforselfawareness
totally
andthenhesuggestactuallysharingthatinformationwiththepeople
youliveinworkwith
oh
thatsagoodidea
yeah
soifyouknow
youhaveareallylowtoleranceforclutter
youcancommunicatethattoyourpartner
yourroommaate
exactlyitkindofsetthoseclearexpectationsandhelpstopreventthoseunnecessaryconflicts
itsaboutcreatingasharedunderstandingandfindingsolutions
thatworkforeveryone
wellaswewrapupourdeepdiveintotidyupyourlife
whatdidyourfinaltakekeways
youknowforme
itsjustthisbeautifulreminder
thattidyenoughisnotjustaboutcreatingavisuallyappealingspace
butaboutcultivatingasenseofintentionalityandenjoyinallareasofourlives
icouldagreemore
itsaboutcreatingalife
thatreflectsourvalues
ourpassionsareuniquedefinitionofenoughandembracingthebeautifulmassive
itallknowingthatimperfectionisnotsomethingtobefeared
butratheranaturalpartofthejourney
thatssuchagoodpoint
soifyourefeelingoverwhelmedbycluttterwhetherphysicalmentaloremotionalrememberthatyouhaveapowertocreatelife
thatfeelsbothmanageableandmeaningfulstartsmallexperimentwithdifferentapproachesandfindalworksforyou
andifyourelookingformoreinspirationinpracticaltips
besuretocheckouttayerorororsbooktidyupyourlifeorconnectwithhimonsocialmedia
hesattidydad
happytiding
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